Let's Hang Out in your Area

[sunshinesunshine]

Have any of you ever had your partner always come to you, like for instance, through out all of my relationships, the guy would always come down and see me and we would hang out in my area or the surrounding areas, hardly ever going to his area.

 

To me, I didn't mind it, I liked hanging out in my area’s but I always felt that my partner would be mad that we would always hang or do what I wanted as opposed to what they wanted.

 

Have any of you dealt with this before?

[amaysngrace]

No but it happened to my friend when she was dating this guy who had a wife and a baby.

[Redhead14]

Have any of you ever had your partner always come to you, like for instance, through out all of my relationships, the guy would always come down and see me and we would hang out in my area or the surrounding areas, hardly ever going to his area.

 

To me, I didn't mind it, I liked hanging out in my area’s but I always felt that my partner would be mad that we would always hang or do what I wanted as opposed to what they wanted.

 

Have any of you dealt with this before?

 

There should be balance. If one is going to the other all the time, they start feeling like they are doing all the work.

 

However, in this case, if they insist on that all the time, I'd be a little wary. If they never have you to their home or area, there's a reason. Ask him if you can come by him sometimes. If he refuses, you'll need to do some inquiring.