pjm123 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 Where do I start I have no freaking idea when I text her I just say how was weekend or how you doing or how was trip she replies and says you i just respond with what i been up to and ask for date THATS IT. So what do I do or where do i begin how do i start on being playful and teasing and being cocky and funny and showing social proof to her etc...? thru texting and on date
smackie9 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 Practice on girls who don't intimidate you. You are not obligated to ask for a date from an uggo, just test out some techniques until you feel comfortable. Once you get the hang of you work your way up the chain. There are a lot of vids on youtube that can help give you some ideas and how to approach girls without flubbing it.
Author pjm123 Posted May 4, 2015 Author Posted May 4, 2015 can i please have info on how and where to start post videos what do i initially text the girl help!
fitnessfan365 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 Dude, every topic you start has to do with creating sexual tension via text. If that's your only goal, you're not going to get very far. I mean don't get me wrong. You definitely want to build sexual attraction and tension. But if you can't connect with a woman personality wise, it won't matter. I'd work on calling women on the phone, talking to them like people, and getting them out with you. Then once and awhile if there's an opening to tease, do so. But for the most part, just talk, be a good listener, state your opinions, etc.. 2
sharp9 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 can i talk to someone on skype please Look up 'good looking loser' on youtube. Before you watch the videos or look at this guys website understand his whole angle is about getting laid. But, you can still learn a lot from his videos to help you with approach anxiety. Start with this I'll reiterate, I don't totally agree with everything he does in all of his videos because some of it is just about getting laid and being very aggressive. But his approach anxiety videos can help any guy, regardless of what his intent is. I also suggest doing as little texting as possible, I much prefer a phone conversation. If you text her and she texts you back you then immediately call her. 1
Ambivalence Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 With all due respect most of these replies are garbage. What you need to do is get up your inner confidence and realize that you are enough. When texting, set up a date, and don't do any chit-chat or small talk. Calling is a waste of time. Flirting with women involves playing with their emotions, "push pull," if you will. The absolute worst thing you can do is try to get them to like you. Most guys try to be nice, or sometimes try to be mean. It's dishonest and honestly socially retarded to do that. Be who you really are, act with confidence, and play with her emotions. This is a good video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo0d10Tl_Go 1
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