Oh boy, the tangled web I weaved

[SingleDude]

So...the girl I met yesterday and texted for 15 hours is cool. Met her yesterday and will again tonight. We will see how that goes.

 

 

Another girl who I started talking to right before that friend requested me on FB and seems to be a little too much. Great sense of humor but really sarcastic and has the old ex/restraining order/court thing happening. Yeah I don't know. But she sure cracks me up.

 

 

The third girl who happened to message me first and was very short in her texting just asked me to call. I did. And I like how she lives my lifestyle of not drinking, no drama and likes things simple. She appeared to be very, very nice.

 

 

All are in their low 30's. I happen to be just a little older.

 

 

I swore I would never do a multi-dating thing but here I am doing just that. How to people do this? A part of me feels kind of guilty and slimy.

 

 

I have an even feeling about the first, cautious of the second and...relaxed about the third so far, even though we haven't met.

 

 

Just ranting a bit. No worries. I got this. I think.

[d0nnivain]

You have some hi class problems but after this week, juggling 3 women I doubt you will have 15 hours of free time to fill texting anybody.

[Gary S]

Just don't offer any information, don't tell them about other women unless they ask.

 

Circular dating can be good - if one rejects you, you have another to fall back on, so it softens the sting of rejection.

 

The one with the stalker ex.... stalkers are a big red flag. If it were me, I'd just talk to other women, I would not bother to meet her. This may be part of the reason she's single? Some smart guys might not want to deal with that. If you'll only date women who have less problems than you do, you'll be better off.

 

You are doing great! Maybe you should be giving advice here.

[SingleDude]

Just don't offer any information, don't tell them about other women unless they ask.

 

Circular dating can be good - if one rejects you, you have another to fall back on, so it softens the sting of rejection.

 

The one with the stalker ex.... stalkers are a big red flag. If it were me, I'd just talk to other women, I would not bother to meet her. This may be part of the reason she's single? Some smart guys might not want to deal with that. If you'll only date women who have less problems than you do, you'll be better off.

 

You are doing great! Maybe you should be giving advice here.

 

 

Yeah the one with the ex is pretty much someone I could be friends with but that's it.

 

 

The other two are on the better side of the spectrum concerning that. If I had to go on very early gut instincts, the third would seem to be the most trustworthy based on lifestyle but like I said, way too early to know anything.

[SingleDude]

You have some hi class problems but after this week, juggling 3 women I doubt you will have 15 hours of free time to fill texting anybody.

 

HA! Ok that was good.

[Syberia]

Wait, aren't you supposed to be living with 15 hour chick like, yesterday, and getting married next week? A little late to be dating others