If I think a woman is above my league then she probably is

[Rescued]

I believe in being realistic. Optimism is a recipe for denial. The lie always feels good. The truth always feel uncomfortable.

 

Therefore I don't bother asking women out who are in a higher league than myself. I am realistic about what I have to offer and I embrace myself as it is. I'm not going to be attractive to every woman that I come in contact with and I accept that. Even if a woman above my league was asking me out I would feel an obligation to turn her down and at least pretend that I'm not interested. I believe in playing it safe in dating.

[d0nnivain]

I don't believe in leagues. I think anybody can talk to anybody at any given time. It's all about confidence.

 

So oddly in a way I sort of agree with you. If you look at a woman & think no way will she talk to you, she won't but not because she's a snob but because you never tried.

[Rescued]

Confidene business is overrated. What that basically says is that only confident people are worthy and deserving of love and intimacy.

[Michelle ma Belle]

I believe in being realistic. Optimism is a recipe for denial. The lie always feels good. The truth always feel uncomfortable.

 

Therefore I don't bother asking women out who are in a higher league than myself. I am realistic about what I have to offer and I embrace myself as it is. I'm not going to be attractive to every woman that I come in contact with and I accept that. Even if a woman above my league was asking me out I would feel an obligation to turn her down and at least pretend that I'm not interested. I believe in playing it safe in dating.

 

That's about the saddest thing I've heard all day.

[Rescued]

That's about the saddest thing I've heard all day.

 

Not really. The saddest thing I get out of this forum is that it is pretty much wrong to have a crush on a woman for 9 months.