Author say_what Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 Been almost a week. I shouldn't ask if she tried face timing me?
Chi townD Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 Been almost a week. I shouldn't ask if she tried face timing me? Nope! If it was important, she would have kept trying to get a hold of you. Since this was only a onetime thing. Write it off as if she was probably drunk while doing it. I would continue NC and make positive changes in your life.
Author say_what Posted May 15, 2015 Author Posted May 15, 2015 What's weird is it was 8:30 in the morning. But true I guess she would have tried again. For some reason part of me thinks it was her new bf being a jerk or something if he found our old text thread in her phone.
Chi townD Posted May 15, 2015 Posted May 15, 2015 What's weird is it was 8:30 in the morning. But true I guess she would have tried again. For some reason part of me thinks it was her new bf being a jerk or something if he found our old text thread in her phone. Yeah dude, just write it off. It could be one of a hundred things and you'll drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. So, just write it off.
joseb Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 How do you know so much about what your ex is doing? If she is your ex, she is no longer part of your life. Who cares what she is doing. You need to move on and cut contact with her. 2
elaine567 Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 Everyone has their own modus operandi, some take things slow others just don't see the point in waiting around. Obviously your ex is one of the latter, but that doesn't mean she necessarily has it wrong. This new man may be the love of her life and she will marry him, have his kids, and die in his arms or he may be some user who will ditch her heart broken in 3 months or she may again move on and leave him licking his wounds, who knows? Who cares? YOU certainly should not care. SHE is your EX.
SycamoreCircle Posted May 16, 2015 Posted May 16, 2015 You're in a circuit of exploring, interrogating and wondering about unhealthful things. Get out of it. Your value is not prescribed by her. Practice mindfulness. Do something which either helps you or helps the people around you. Playing Magnum P.I. to her life helps no one. Sick 'em, lads...
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