GirlyGurl Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 Am beginning to date a new guy but he only asks me out for a weeknight. ...never a weekend. Seems odd to me. Is it odd?
fitnessfan365 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 I do the same thing with new women I'm dating. Since the weekend is my time for me, I don't spend any weekend time with a woman until she has proven herself. Once I know she is special and I want to get more serious with her, I start opening up weekend time to her.
spiderowl Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 Or of course he could be married or attached. It's easier to explain to a partner that you are 'working late' once in a while than explain away a weekend evening to him/her.
Author GirlyGurl Posted May 4, 2015 Author Posted May 4, 2015 So how do you know? It's been 2 months since we met and we have been on Two dates. I don't think he is into me but he stays in contact and asked me out. I did ask him why he only asks me out for a weeknight and he said he has things to do on Saturdays. I have a high pressured job and am pretty wrung out on weeknight so...no change. I told him that another guy had asked me out for Sat (true) and since he didn't ask me out for Sat I would go out with this other guy...no reaction from him.. I want to get out of this situation and call it a day. How do I do it without looking like sour grapes. I think I am just a placeholder..I have nothing invested and don't really care. help.
SingleDude Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 So how do you know? It's been 2 months since we met and we have been on Two dates. I don't think he is into me but he stays in contact and asked me out. I did ask him why he only asks me out for a weeknight and he said he has things to do on Saturdays. I have a high pressured job and am pretty wrung out on weeknight so...no change. I told him that another guy had asked me out for Sat (true) and since he didn't ask me out for Sat I would go out with this other guy...no reaction from him.. I want to get out of this situation and call it a day. How do I do it without looking like sour grapes. I think I am just a placeholder..I have nothing invested and don't really care. help. Two dates in two months? Drop him.
fitnessfan365 Posted May 4, 2015 Posted May 4, 2015 So how do you know? It's been 2 months since we met and we have been on Two dates. I don't think he is into me but he stays in contact and asked me out. I did ask him why he only asks me out for a weeknight and he said he has things to do on Saturdays. I have a high pressured job and am pretty wrung out on weeknight so...no change. I told him that another guy had asked me out for Sat (true) and since he didn't ask me out for Sat I would go out with this other guy...no reaction from him.. I want to get out of this situation and call it a day. How do I do it without looking like sour grapes. I think I am just a placeholder..I have nothing invested and don't really care. help. Oh wow.. Only two dates in two months? Yeah I'd say that his interest level is so low that it's subliminal. In the beginning stages it's normal to have a lower date frequency. But even then, a guy will still want to see you once a week at least. So if he had any type of interest, you would have had at least 6-8 dates by now IMO. If you consider the extremely low date frequency and only weeknights, I'd say that there's a good chance he's probably involved with someone else and you're a side piece. If you want to drop the guy, I'd recommend just starting to date other guys and ignore him when he contacts you. Since he's basically ignoring you already, turnabout is fair play IMO.
Author GirlyGurl Posted May 4, 2015 Author Posted May 4, 2015 Yes, it's pretty pathetic. I got a ton of information when I told him I would accept another date for Sat and he was nonplussed....no reaction. He says lots of endearing things on text but that bs isn't meshing with his actions. If he was really interested I would think he would be wanting to see me on weekends and make sure no one else does. OLD can be so bizarre. So I think I will ignore his text tomorrow and then tell him something work related came up and just get real busy and unable to see him.
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