I'm attracting racist women that are using me for sex.

[JoshCube]

I am 29 years old, my race is Sicilian/English, and I have a Jewish last name. I'm almost done divorcing a woman who is German, and after a lot of research, I was convinced she used me for sex all these years. My skin is a tanned olive color, and she would talk about my features a lot. During intimacy, she would even say things about my race, and she was very turned on about this as well. I even remember a time where she said "You're Jewish and I'm German. That's so wrong," before she got her orgasm. It seems like this racial thing is some sort of desire that is going through the woman's head, making her want me.

 

Since I have been women hunting, the same pattern seems to be repeating. I live in an area that is 95% White, and I'm thinking this is the core problem. I am getting White women that are hitting on me based on my race, and I'm concerned that I could end up in another lustful relationship. For example, I was at my job the other day, and a White girl with blonde hair and blue eyes said my skin color was sexy, and then she hinted off about my penis size followed by this. As a man, I will admit I love this attention, but at the same time, I find this to be racist. I feel like I'm a Black guy living in the 1920's or something with all this going on.

 

The reason why this is a bad thing is because if I hook up with another woman and the relationship is based on just sex, there will be lack of emotion. Lack of emotion will lead to cheating, dishonesty, disrespect, and the list goes on. You need emotion in a relationship in order for stability so that the girl doesn't have another man on the side. In the situation with my ex-wife (pending), she was disrespecting me behind my back, plus she was sleeping with another man on her many vacations.

 

I feel that in order to avoid these racial issues, I need to relocate. I'm currently living in Wisconsin, and my mother and I are thinking about moving to Pennsylvania, because its a state with one of the largest Sicilian (and Italian) populations. I feel that if I am around women that are my same race, I won't run into racial issues like I am having here. I also feel I would be happier if I married a Sicilian woman with dark skin, because I will feel a lot closer to her. With these women that are White, I'm experiencing too much racial tension, and I'm getting sick of it. I just want to be happy, that's all I am asking for. I do not want to be treated like a sex object.

 

Let me hear your opinions on this. Thanks.

[smackie9]

Really??? this is what you think? Sure there are poeple who find dating outside their race is "exotic" but that doesn't mean all out come is "lustful" relationships.

 

These things that keep occurring has nothing to do with racial tension or being racist, no you are just either A) presenting yourself as a player or B) you are simply picking women who are not interested in relationships.

 

Being racist is hating,or being in contempt because of others race, religion, belief or lifestyle choice. If they were racist, they wouldn't be having sex with you that's for sure.