Hawkeye2424 Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 So my sister set me up with a friend of her husbands family. He does live 6 hours away but he had my info and thought about it for awhile and finally contacted me. We have been talking for weeks every day and finally decided to meet half way yesterday. He was upfront that he is ok with our distance. So yesterday we met up. He came with a beer and cd he made-something of an inside joke but very sweet and thoughtful. We spent the whole day together and laughed and there was no awkward silences and really had a great time. He hinted all day that he was into me and gave no sign of this being a one day thing. We left last night to head to our homes and I was so happy the whole drive. He then sent me a text-not a call to tell me the distance is too much for him and he isn't interested in pursuing things. I completely respect that but I'm very confused about what happened. He said it wasn't a problem and I really didn't get a vibe that he wasn't interested in me. How does a switch flip that fast? And why contact someone in the first place? I'm just looking for any insight. I really really like him and would like more than a day to get to know him before deciding that after putting all this effort in
Gary S Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 People are complicated and bring a lot to the table in dating... sometimes this includes distance issues. It's a process - which means until you have his heart at 7 weeks, they can flake at any time. What difference does it make whether he does not like you or the distance? The bottom line is, he's not interested, sorry.
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