Sybil562 Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 So this is the first time I'm doing the casual sex thing. I met this guy through a mutual friend, who we'll call Rich. I absolutely LOVE Rich. He's older than me (by a lot) but I honestly love and adore him so much. He's so good and wonderful to me and I WISH I felt the same way he felt towards me but I just don't. There's no sexual attraction there at all and I feel bad about it. But anyway, Rich has made it clear to many that he's attracted to me and would love to be with me. So I feel bad about having sex with someone he knows but that's another issue... So a couple of nights ago I was hanging out with that guy (I don't know what to call him -- my sex buddy? LOL). We were with some of his friends having fun, having some drinks, etc. Eventually he and I went off on our own and had sex. As we're laying there cuddling we start talking. I ask him a question (something about his ex-wife), he answers, and I express my approval. Then he says, "Rich's ex-wife never worked" and I say I know. But in my mind I'm thinking wtf, why did he bring him up?! As we're cuddling in bed after sex?! Why would he make such a stupid random comment like that? I don't want a relationship, just a casual, fun sexual one. Is it possible that he feels threatened by Rich, even though it's clear I don't have sexual feelings for him?
d0nnivain Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 No. Rich is just somebody you two have in common. It was gossip not a manifestation of jealousy / resentment.
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