Just_c Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 I first started seeing this girl about 6 months ago. We only went on a couple of dates then she stopped texting me and I saw her on Facebook with another guy so decided to give up. A few months later she texted me wanting to catch up again and seemed really keen. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and give it another go because I liked her. We've now been seeing each other casually for a few months. I told her at one point I really liked her but she said she didn't want to be in a relationship but also didn't want us to see other people either which was quite confusing. That aside, everything seemed to be going well. We text each other all the time and had great sex and enjoyed catching up with each other. Now however she seems a little more distant and I have to make all the effort to catch up. I asked her if she was free this week and she said she had plans.. new gym induction, and a friend visiting for a few days so would have to wait until the week after. I'm not quite sure what to do here. Should I ask her direct if she still wants to see me or show a bit more patience because she might be genuinely busy? She has just come back from holiday and started a new job but it feels as though she would make more effort if she was genuinely keen to see me. Thoughts?
joseb Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 At a guess I'd say she is happy for you not to see other people but she is going to do whatever she wants, and use you as a backup.
La.Primavera Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 I agree with the previous poster. She sounds like a user, not girlfriend material. I wouldn't waste my time.
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