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MY ex gf contacted me a few hours ago!!


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I want to get her back but I don't know what I should talk about and what I shouldn't tak about I don't want to mess things up. Can someone help me out on how to start a good exciting conversation? Thanks

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Well she is an ex GF. So why are you so concerned about exciting conversation? It's not like the things that made her an ex are suddenly going to change.

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Well she is an ex GF. So why are you so concerned about exciting conversation? It's not like the things that made her an ex are suddenly going to change.

 

because I'm the one who messed our relationship up and i don't want to ruin my chance.

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Well, don't make any promises you can't keep, but if you have sincerely reflected on and accepted that your actions were why the relationship didn't work and you think you can move forward without resentment after you apologize sincerely and in detail while enumerating the things you did that you now know were wrong and if you really believe you can not repeat those same mistakes going forward, then go for it. But if she's heard all this before, she will know better.

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Well, don't make any promises you can't keep, but if you have sincerely reflected on and accepted that your actions were why the relationship didn't work and you think you can move forward without resentment after you apologize sincerely and in detail while enumerating the things you did that you now know were wrong and if you really believe you can not repeat those same mistakes going forward, then go for it. But if she's heard all this before, she will know better.

 

Yeah i have learned from my mistakes i have matured in these past 7 months. i want to make things right with her and since she contacted me i feel like this could be my only chance to do that. Can you help me on what things i should avoid talking about and what things i should focus on? please

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I suggest you find a newer, hotter, funner, girl. Funner is a word right?

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Yeah i have learned from my mistakes i have matured in these past 7 months. i want to make things right with her and since she contacted me i feel like this could be my only chance to do that. Can you help me on what things i should avoid talking about and what things i should focus on? please

 

What did you do to her if you don't mind me asking?

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What did you do to her if you don't mind me asking?

 

just acted immature, and towards the end i would get mad for the smallest things and i would ignore her, thinking she would never leave. just simply not being a man when she needed me too right after high school 7 months ago.

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