25yearoldguy Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 I'm a 25 year old guy who has been in a commited relationship for about 5 years. Despite currently doing the long-distance thing, the relationship has been generally good and I am happy with my partner. The problem is that I have recently developed a "crush" on another woman. This other woman has given no indication that she's interested in me and I know that we wouldn't work in a relationship anyway, so I'm not even entertaining the though of leaving my girlfriend for her (or cheating), but I still find myself daydreaming about this other woman. I have never had any "crushes" or infatuations or whatever you want to call it on anyone else since I have been with my girlfriend, so I'm not sure if this is something normal that I just have to get over or if it is a sign of serious problems in my current relationship. Any advice or insight that anyone can give would be much appreciated.
d'Arthez Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 It is quite normal to develop crushes, but please never act upon it. Because your current relationship is long distance, she replaces your gf somewhat in your imagination, as you see your crush probably more often than your gf. Don't risk your relationship, even when you there are problems in your relationship, as you would only aggravate the problems. They would only get worse; and as you have realized yourself already, you and the crush would never work out.
Skullcrusher Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Yo man, it's been 5 years. Are you going to marry this woman or not? If not, go see what this crush can do for you.
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