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i would say thanks in advance and sorry for my english i am french

 

so i am 19 years old guy who is in good shape someone who never cause problems or something like that, i never had gf before so.. ill try to explain in best way and shortest.

 

exactly 1 month ago i added some girl in my fake fb, then we talked talked and she wanted to meet me soo hard that i couldn't decline. She didn't even knew what i looked like. so i went to meet her up everything was fine and i actually liked her, she sounded mature and i really fall in love with her.

 

fast forward everything was fine we were going out doing what a couple is supposed to do, everytime when she would wake up i would have an sms from her i really loved her, i was writing poems to her and everything i did absolutely everything. she was crazy in love with me and me with her.

 

then 3 days ago she was acting really strange she didn't wanted to hold my hand anymore, then the whole 2 days she was ignoring my sms and she blocked my FB, she was always telling me that i was too much carring about her and she didn't liked that , and yesterday at midnight i get a message from her, "sorry i am going to dissapear thats why i was these days like that " i replied how dont go i still love you then she texted me "no no i will go" i though she would kill herself because she had really bad past and she already attemped a suicide i called police right away, what happened after that she told the police that she doesn't want to see me anymore and that i am harrasing her.

 

then what happened she went back to her ex, the ex that leaved her the same day that she have meet met me for first time.

 

i really miss her, my first kiss, my first love, i miss everything about her, her parfume everything, and btw she was 16.

 

I really don't know what to do..? i feel devastated even if i knew her only for 1 month i really enjoyed being with her all those laughs with her....

 

thanks

Marco Valerio Established Member

Marco Valerio

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i would say thanks in advance and sorry for my english i am french

 

so i am 19 years old guy who is in good shape someone who never cause problems or something like that, i never had gf before so.. ill try to explain in best way and shortest.

 

exactly 1 month ago i added some girl in my fake fb, then we talked talked and she wanted to meet me soo hard that i couldn't decline. She didn't even knew what i looked like. so i went to meet her up everything was fine and i actually liked her, she sounded mature and i really fall in love with her.

 

fast forward everything was fine we were going out doing what a couple is supposed to do, everytime when she would wake up i would have an sms from her i really loved her, i was writing poems to her and everything i did absolutely everything. she was crazy in love with me and me with her.

 

then 3 days ago she was acting really strange she didn't wanted to hold my hand anymore, then the whole 2 days she was ignoring my sms and she blocked my FB, she was always telling me that i was too much carring about her and she didn't liked that , and yesterday at midnight i get a message from her, "sorry i am going to dissapear thats why i was these days like that " i replied how dont go i still love you then she texted me "no no i will go" i though she would kill herself because she had really bad past and she already attemped a suicide i called police right away, what happened after that she told the police that she doesn't want to see me anymore and that i am harrasing her.

 

then what happened she went back to her ex, the ex that leaved her the same day that she have meet met me for first time.

 

i really miss her, my first kiss, my first love, i miss everything about her, her parfume everything, and btw she was 16.

 

I really don't know what to do..? i feel devastated even if i knew her only for 1 month i really enjoyed being with her all those laughs with her....

 

thanks

 

I have underlined the key points from your thread.

 

1. Your relationship lasted only a month, far too short to give her that importance in your life.

2. It seems to me a very strange "way" of meeting each other, don't you think so?

3. She also appears to be a problematic girl.

4. She met you and dumped you on the same day she had broken up and gotten back with her ex.

 

Forget her. You'll have a real relationship in the future, and with a normal girl.

Cheer up!!!!

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ravfour4 Established Member

ravfour4

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Sounds like an overall very immature relationship.

 

1) She instantly jumped into things with you before even knowing what you look like (only a very insecure girl in need of attention does that, or maybe one that just broke up with her ex).

2) Being your first "relationship", you loved the attention and fell for her hard....it happens, but you'll meet someone much better, who is more stable and will appreciate those caring texts from you in the future.

3) She fled back to her ex after getting scared that you (her rebound "relationship") and told you she was going to disappear after being weird for 2 days. That's immature and not someone you want to be with.

 

Look at this "relationship" as some brief and good practice for what's to come ahead and an example of the type of girl you DON'T want to be with.

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