mongo Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 i truly mean this. i have literally nothing women want. i cant deal with the rejection anymore. im 34 and i cant do it anymore. im a decent looking guy, tall, muscular, deep voice, athletic. im very polite, but not a doormat. i smile and flirt. im also very smart and funny. theres something in my personality they cant stand. i have no idea what it is. they all avoid me. its utterly soul crushing.
lollipopspot Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 What kind of feedback have you gotten when you ask your friends what they think is the problem?
fardaxel Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 i truly mean this. i have literally nothing women want. i cant deal with the rejection anymore. im 34 and i cant do it anymore. im a decent looking guy, tall, muscular, deep voice, athletic. im very polite, but not a doormat. i smile and flirt. im also very smart and funny. theres something in my personality they cant stand. i have no idea what it is. they all avoid me. its utterly soul crushing. Maybe you need to remember that no one owes you a relationship. You should try talking to a life coach. See if they can help you.
Revan32 Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 Can you give a little more info on your past dating experiences? Such as, have you ever dated, ever had a one night stand, ever had a girl show interest at all? Stuff like that. What makes you so sure its your personality that is the problem? Most guys difficulties come from their looks, so if you post pics I could tell you if that has anything to do with it.
Jame22 Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 (edited) i truly mean this either that or you're just here for validation/encouragement. I'm leaning towards the latter. Edited May 2, 2015 by Jame22
chantos Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 i truly mean this. i have literally nothing women want. i cant deal with the rejection anymore. im 34 and i cant do it anymore. im a decent looking guy, tall, muscular, deep voice, athletic. im very polite, but not a doormat. i smile and flirt. im also very smart and funny. theres something in my personality they cant stand. i have no idea what it is. they all avoid me. its utterly soul crushing. Sounds like you're too much of a gentleman in an era where that only hurts. Be less polite. Be less funny. Be more cocky. Be less available. Make girls chase you instead of being so kind and smart and witty. Be quiet. Let the girl talk and prove herself instead of vice versa. If you're bigger and better than the rest then act like it. You probably don't believe it and women pick up on that lack of confidence via body language and general vibe/energy. I'd personally never say I have nothing women want. I'd never say I can't deal with rejection. I'd never say a woman could come remotely close to crushing my soul in any way. It's all a mentality that you need to develop over time. Stop thinking negatively and start getting confidence even if you're just saying random positive stuff to yourself.
lollipopspot Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 Sounds like you're too much of a gentleman in an era where that only hurts. Be less polite. Be less funny. Wrong. Just don't be a doormat. No one likes that. But polite and funny and a gentleman are desirable qualities. PUA really teaches men how to no longer be authentic humans and just be jerks, I think. It's all or nothing with PUA - doormat or jerk. 2
chantos Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 (edited) Wrong. Just don't be a doormat. No one likes that. But polite and funny and a gentleman are desirable qualities. PUA really teaches men how to no longer be authentic humans and just be jerks, I think. It's all or nothing with PUA - doormat or jerk. That's because most guys can't find the sweet spot between doormat and jerk. Less polite, less funny, less gentlemanly does not mean become a completely evil *******. A flirty, cocky, fun guy isn't a jerk. He's just called a jerk when he isn't a doormat. Edited May 2, 2015 by chantos
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