pjm123 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Please help on how I can regain interest or how I should be, she tried to tear me down complain about how i cook meals with frozen vegetables and stuff like that someone said she just trying to break me down? Also she waits a day to reply to my text and the next morning when she woke up she kissed me and left normally she stays till afternoon. Also I am doing no contact this week and I HAVE NOT heard from her at all initial contact from her so please advise on what to do? I was gonna contact next week need advice here sosuave will not help me.
fitnessfan365 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Frozen vegetables are actually BETTER for you because the nutrients stay contained longer. As long as you steam, frozen vegetables for the win! But the fact that she'd be that petty over something like frozen vegetables is ridiculous IMO. 3
chantos Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 by the time you went no contact is was too late. by the time she started nagging and complaining it was too late. you need to be mindful of the signs she's losing interest way earlier. don't waste your time trying to cater to someone who's criticizing the way you cook for her. that's ungrateful and you'll spend your entire life trying to please her, in vain.
Gaeta Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 Please help on how I can regain interest or how I should be, she tried to tear me down complain about how i cook meals with frozen vegetables and stuff like that someone said she just trying to break me down? Also she waits a day to reply to my text and the next morning when she woke up she kissed me and left normally she stays till afternoon. Also I am doing no contact this week and I HAVE NOT heard from her at all initial contact from her so please advise on what to do? I was gonna contact next week need advice here sosuave will not help me. Why would you want to be with such a mean person? She had no business criticizing your cooking and I use frozen veggies in my cooking it's a very healthy choice. If anyone made a comment toward my cooking I would be showing them the door. It's extremely rude and ungrateful. If I serve you a carrot for dinner I expect you to say thank you and it's the best carrot you've ever had! You cannot revive her interest and no amount of 'no contact' is going to make her change her mind. Time for you to delete her number and forget about her. If she ever contacts you again it will be because she is bored or someone dumped her and she needs attention. Don't fool yourself.
Gary S Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 If she's a nag now, just imagine what she would be like if you were married to her. Attila The Hun?! 1
Redhead14 Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 Please help on how I can regain interest or how I should be, she tried to tear me down complain about how i cook meals with frozen vegetables and stuff like that someone said she just trying to break me down? Also she waits a day to reply to my text and the next morning when she woke up she kissed me and left normally she stays till afternoon. Also I am doing no contact this week and I HAVE NOT heard from her at all initial contact from her so please advise on what to do? I was gonna contact next week need advice here sosuave will not help me. If you go no contact, you stay no contact unless or until she contacts you. No contact is not used to get someone back, it is for you to be able to move on and prepare for possibility/likelihood that the other person has lost interest.
central Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 Stay NC, even if she contacts you. You don't need the stupid drama from someone so critical over minor issues. Imagine when a big issue arises!
Author pjm123 Posted May 2, 2015 Author Posted May 2, 2015 OK WeLL I CANT GET NO HELP!!! How the hell do i know when shes losing interest and when to fix????? She just started and i had no id ea like i said until when i texted her and she responded day later and the weekend happend Everything was fine before!! Tell me what can i do?
Gaeta Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 OK WeLL I CANT GET NO HELP!!! How the hell do i know when shes losing interest and when to fix????? She just started and i had no id ea like i said until when i texted her and she responded day later and the weekend happend Everything was fine before!! Tell me what can i do? Help? You are trying to revive an already dead horse, there is no kind of help to bring it back alive. When do you know she lost interest? A) When she is mean about your cooking B) When she takes a day to reply to your text. THAT means she lost interest. How to revive her interest? You cannot. You move on with your life, if she comes back good, if she doesn't good riddance. She is not the only woman on the face of this earth for you to date. 2
ExpatInItaly Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 OK WeLL I CANT GET NO HELP!!! How the hell do i know when shes losing interest and when to fix????? She just started and i had no id ea like i said until when i texted her and she responded day later and the weekend happend Everything was fine before!! Tell me what can i do? When a week passes and you've heard nothing from her. It's clear she already lost interest, and she sounds like a jerk anyway. Let this one go. Ask yourself why in the world you would even want to revive a connection with someone who apparently was never that into it to begin with.
katiegrl Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 I had no idea frozen veggies were more nutritional than fresh! Wow, the things I learn on this board.... That said, I agree with Gaeta! As usual....
preraph Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 I have to agree with the general consensus here. Frozen vegs are good and look how many people don't even bother eating vegetables at all. And she doesn't sound that great complaining about such a small thing. If she's one of those people who thinks there's only one way to be and that's like her, you're well rid of her.
Author pjm123 Posted May 2, 2015 Author Posted May 2, 2015 None of you are helping the point is women are losing interest in me 3 months after dating and no one is telling me how to prevent it!!!! I only hit her up once a week beginning of week ask for date and get date and we just hangout or go date. Only problem i have no idea how to act and when she asks questions i just answer them and not be sarcastic HELP! 1
Gaeta Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 None of you are helping the point is women are losing interest in me 3 months after dating and no one is telling me how to prevent it!!!! I only hit her up once a week beginning of week ask for date and get date and we just hangout or go date. Only problem i have no idea how to act and when she asks questions i just answer them and not be sarcastic HELP! So what did you cook with the frozen veggies? I am always looking for new recipes. About the girl, sh!.t happens. We all have a story like yours: Someone losing interest after 1-2-3-6 months. There is nothing you can do, it's life, it happens for no particular reasons. I am sorry we are not telling you exactly what you want to hear. We're not going to give you tricks because there is no tricks.
ExpatInItaly Posted May 2, 2015 Posted May 2, 2015 None of you are helping the point is women are losing interest in me 3 months after dating and no one is telling me how to prevent it!!!! I only hit her up once a week beginning of week ask for date and get date and we just hangout or go date. Only problem i have no idea how to act and when she asks questions i just answer them and not be sarcastic HELP! That wasn't your original question. You asked a question about one girl in particular. We can't help you if you don't ask the question you actually want answered. So, are you looking for help with this girl (who has already lost interest, let's be realistic) or women in general?
Author pjm123 Posted May 3, 2015 Author Posted May 3, 2015 BOTH. I need to know how to keep wonen entertained and laughing and have them not get bored of me guy told me treat them like slut and watch comedy stuff
Fleur de cactus Posted May 3, 2015 Posted May 3, 2015 Just be nice and respectful so that they can respect you back. If she does not see that you care about her and decide to go just let her go, One day you will find a perfect much. Concerning that girl you were dating, she does not love you. She is using frozen vegetables as an excuse. The best thing to do is to let her go. She is something!! Dont revive a dead horse like someone said here. She is not worth!! Take your revenge and call her to invite her for a nice frozen vegetable dish!!
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