Marshbear Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 I have some advise for the women out there. When relationships go sour and you part don't play the guilt trip on your ex or look at him with sympathy. No one wants to be pityed.Just leave things alone say Hi of you met but don't give them the, "I feel sorry or guilty, look". If you both told the truth about your relationship then you have nothing to be guilty about. Just hold your head up, say "Hi. How are you?", and go on about your business.
johnjohnsmith199 Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 They will never be honest with you as to why they left .NEVER!!!!!. they can tell you all sorts of reasons but they will never tell you the truth. Why? because sometimes its hard to hear " I dont want to be mairred anymore because your boring" or because you never take an interest i want I do. Women are either looking for prince charming or a gay guy as a perfect partner, and we will never measure up to her expectaions.
Merin Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by johnjohnsmith199 They will never be honest with you as to why they left .NEVER!!!!!. Women are either looking for prince charming or a gay guy as a perfect partner, and we will never measure up to her expectaions. Not true in all cases... When I ended my last relationship he knew EXACTLY why I left... When I ended my marriage he also knew EXACTLY why I left... I wasn't looking for Prince Charming NOR a Gay Guy as a perfect partner... There aren't any Perfect Partners... and while I understand and accept that and also accept that I'm not perfect.. there are things for everyone that are deal breakers. I didn't have High expectations nor did I ask for anything more than I was willing to give or had already given... IMO it isn't about living up to someone else's expectations.. it's living up to expectations you have of YOURSELF.
Angeleyez2583 Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by johnjohnsmith199 They will never be honest with you as to why they left .NEVER!!!!!. they can tell you all sorts of reasons but they will never tell you the truth. Why? because sometimes its hard to hear " I dont want to be mairred anymore because your boring" or because you never take an interest i want I do. Women are either looking for prince charming or a gay guy as a perfect partner, and we will never measure up to her expectaions. I don't believe this either. My ex gave me my answer yesterday. It was only what I put him through when I was drinking. So in otherwords, the relationship would have been great if I didn't have that drinking problem, which I got help for by the way.
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