My ex boyfriend contacted me through the dating app we met on

[Everlastinglite]

I havent seen him since new years, and we havent spoken in almost 40 days.

I finally had enough of his games and broke it off in the middle of March (third time we broke up ..) but since then he has contacted me through PoF (Plenty of Fish) about twice now. The first was a week after we broke up and he wanted me to call him and begged for me to hear him out. I didnt do that but we exchanged a few messages for about two days. Then he deleted his account and i havent heard from him since.....until yesterday when he messaged me with a new account asking hows everything been. I didnt reply...but now that i know hes back on there i feel a pull all the time to check out his page. I also deleted his message because i knew i wasnt going to play the game AGAIN. He messaged again late last night (i was sleeping) and said he just wanted to know how everythings going with me and if im okay.

The thing is, why is he always messaging me through the app?! How come he wont just text me or call me...he has my number and i havent blocked him even though i really should, but i havent. I would feel a lot better if he did that instead.

[PegNosePete]

He wants sex and sees you as an easy mark.

Block.

Done.

[Pinkdisney]

It takes him the least amount of time and effort, and shows you he's "moved on"

[sandylee1]

Ignore him and his childish games OR tell him you're fine, but there's no need to contact you again.