Bobbi7 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Like if a guy is interested-would be asking just the "getting to know you questions", etc,etc, work, where are you from, etc,etc. No touching, just laughing, smiling. And if there comes a point to where he starts complimenting a girl-aka her looks, her relationship status-that's flirting?
fitnessfan365 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 If a guy is making physical contact, getting you to laugh, being playful in how he interacts, giving you a physical compliment, etc he's interested. On the other hand, if it feels like he is interviewing you, he's just making polite conversation. 1
Redhead14 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Like if a guy is interested-would be asking just the "getting to know you questions", etc,etc, work, where are you from, etc,etc. No touching, just laughing, smiling. And if there comes a point to where he starts complimenting a girl-aka her looks, her relationship status-that's flirting? 9 times out of 10, you will know if a guy is interested. If you're questioning it, he's likely being polite and casual. And, yes, there will be more compliments and touching lightly. But the number 1 way to know . . . is when they ask you for a date. Until then, he's just a guy you've been talking to. 1
katiegrl Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 9 times out of 10, you will know if a guy is interested. If you're questioning it, he's likely being polite and casual. And, yes, there will be more compliments and touching lightly. But the number 1 way to know . . . is when they ask you for a date. Until then, he's just a guy you've been talking to. Agree with Red. But be aware, that a man who goes overboard with the compliments, may not be a man you "want* to be interested... as men who go overboard with too many compliments may have other motives for behaving the way they do, namely getting you into bed. Not always, just be aware. Then again, flattery doesn't phase me, but I'm weird about stuff like that, i.e. not typical of what most women respond to.
elaine567 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Like if a guy is interested-would be asking just the "getting to know you questions", etc,etc, work, where are you from, etc,etc. No touching, just laughing, smiling. And if there comes a point to where he starts complimenting a girl-aka her looks, her relationship status-that's flirting? I think it also depends on the guy, some flirt like mad and are not really interested in pursuing anything and others will "converse" and seem uninterested and they are highly interested. It is sometimes not that simple.
Redhead14 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 I think it also depends on the guy, some flirt like mad and are not really interested in pursuing anything and others will "converse" and seem uninterested and they are highly interested. It is sometimes not that simple. Bottom line is you don't know until you know With any type of guy, if you are interested, you don't become intimate with them until they've shown you what they are made of and demonstrating sincerity with consistency and respect. Men who go overboard with compliments and who just want to bed you, do it in an almost disrespectful way and it doesn't even "feel" good to me.
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