Raman60 Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Ok, I usually don't pour out my feelings and I'm new to this so bear with me. I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 19. We have been going out for a year and a half,and we have been broken up for 3 weeks. She means the world to me and I care about her so much but our relationship started to get stale to me. I didn't want to have sex with her as much and it's like I didn't even want to kiss her sometimes. I love her to death and it didnt/doesn't make sense to me. Since I broke up with her, I can't stop thinking about her. She is on my mind all the time at work,everything reminds me of her and when I see a picture of her my heart about jumps out of my chest. I can't really see myself being with another person but I'm only 22 years old, I have some time left. But I feel like I want her back but I don't want it to get stale again and I want to break up with her cause she would.hate me.forever. any advice is appreciated
Syberia Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Relationships will get "stale" if both sides don't work at keeping it fresh. Since you clearly still have feelings for her, it would have been completely fixable if you had just worked at it. You can tell her you made a mistake, you've been thinking a lot about what you had and would like to work on fixing it, but that ship may have sailed and it's up to her if she wants to try again.
Omei Posted May 1, 2015 Posted May 1, 2015 Relationships will get "stale" if both sides don't work at keeping it fresh. Since you clearly still have feelings for her, it would have been completely fixable if you had just worked at it. You can tell her you made a mistake, you've been thinking a lot about what you had and would like to work on fixing it, but that ship may have sailed and it's up to her if she wants to try again. Agree, before you break up with someone you need to take every route possible to fix things, does she even know why you ended it? Anyway breaking up is a very permanent solution many people feel abandoned and betrayed after they're dumped breaking up and getting back together all the time destroys relationships... Do everything you can to show her you've made a huge mistake without considering how much you cared before you left show her this post if needed its raw, filled with honesty and came from the heart.
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