nastyex22 Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 My girlfriend has been living with her gay best friend - who is a freak. I can't stand him. He's very wealthy and a complete snot. Anyway, I rarely stay there when he's in town. He travels for business a lot. Recently, I borrowed the parking pass for his/her condo -- and somehow I lost it. My girlfriend flipped out and said we needed to replace it asap. So, I called the office and discovered that he had collecting rent from her and never had her on the lease. There are strict rules. I didn't get him in trouble - I just said I was a friend...and stayed there and wanted to find out the cost of the pass. They said it was 500 bucks. HE told her that it was 1200! So, my GF told him that I had called and found out that it was NOT 1200 dollars and that she would pay him the 500 only. He freaked out and started calling her a f*ck*ng Bi*ch for going behind his back and asking the managers and then locked her out of the apartment and said she could never come back. He's proceeded to bad mouth her and harass her -- and is now bad mouthing me. My girlfriend is considering calling the management and reporting him for renting the apartment against the rules -- without her being on the lease. But, she's scared he will get even more viscous. I said she needs a restraining order? Thoughts?
mammasita Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 So what about her stuff? How is she getting her things back?
Author nastyex22 Posted April 30, 2015 Author Posted April 30, 2015 She only has a few things in there -- and he's had the locks changed. If she wants to get her things back she would have to report him -- she is afraid to ask him for the things because he's been so evil. She hasn't responded to any of his nasty texts and messages.
mammasita Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 If she can take the loss I say leave it alone and move on. If she has anything valuable then the only route is to report him.
gaius Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 Report him. Then take him to small claims court for the cost of whatever he won't give back plus the difference in what he charged her vs what it actually cost.
pteromom Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 Unless she has something in there she really cares about, I would just move on and get away from him. He sounds unhinged. You could always contact him on her behalf, and just calmly say she doesn't want to report him or anything - she just wants her things and she will get out of his life. Maybe he will do the right thing and let you come get her stuff.
preraph Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 Your girlfriend can't be too pleased with you right now for losing his parking pass and getting her kicked out of her cushy apartment. I think you guys misunderstood about the cost for the parking pass in that if you were just applying for a new one so you'd have a space for your car, it would cost whatever it costs, but if you already paid for that, then it would just be replacing your actually physical pass, which might amount to a few bucks. He already owns the rights to the space. He just needs a new card or whatever.
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