br151 Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 So I've been dating and seeing this girl for about a month now, shes 22 im 24, we met online. We have a ton of things in common like most people who date do... and I know she likes me, and she knows I like her, neither of us have actually "said" it though. 2-3 weeks ago after we had already gone on a couple dates she said she wanted to take things slowly, which I understood because I think shes been burned in the past. Anyways since then, we've gone on more dates, I've met most of her close friends and her sister (they all seem to like me), we've cuddled, kissed, made out, and we've slept over at each others houses once per... she tends to talk about the future too. We see each other 1-3 times a week id say, her work schedule is getting better though as of recently so I've started to see her more. I feel like I have all of the signs of a relationship or exclusiveness, but I havent brought it up yet because I dont know where she stands with the taking it slow thing. I obviously dont want to push her towards a relationship if she isnt ready. Btw she deleted her online profile, I just dont know for sure if shes seeing anyone else or wants to. Thoughts? thanks!
preraph Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 Since she said she wants to take things slowly, I'd wait more than a month to ask her for exclusivity. Just keep going out and having fun and being romantic. Give it another month or two. If she's still going out and you're still being romantic by then, go for it. Good luck.
Author br151 Posted April 30, 2015 Author Posted April 30, 2015 Thanks for the quick response! I'm open to all options, some of my friends have said that, and some have said the opposite, so I'm just here getting opinions.
PogoStick Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 Crazy idea but you could ask her how she is feeling!
Author br151 Posted April 30, 2015 Author Posted April 30, 2015 Crazy idea but you could ask her how she is feeling! Not a crazy idea, thats my idea, but people are good at talking me out of that hahaha Edit: except that puts her on the spot, which could be bad.
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