Author alpha99 Posted May 4, 2015 Author Posted May 4, 2015 thanks for all your replies. I will definitely be thinking alot about how I've interacted with this girl up til now. there seems to be a certain amount of game playing involved in dating that I've never encountered before. I met my previous partner young and was with her a long time, so all of this stuff got bypassed as we just hit it off on our first date and never looked back. As it happens this girl did text back earlier to say that she is still busy with work related stuff, hence slow replies. I sent a jokey, casual text back saying no problem. She's going to let me know if she gets her work done in time we'll go out. It does seem legit based on her job. Even so, I realise that daily texts are too much. My previous partner would text me maybe 50 times a day after our first date - this girl texts back slowly hours later. I get the impression from what you've said that I'm coming across as borderline overbearing - definitely not my intention - so I'll see what happens today if we do go out but whatever happens I'll definitely dial down the contact and work on building the attraction whilst we are face to face. thanks for all your help!
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