mehim Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 well its been a very weird relationship, when i first found this forum was when i was broken by my ex, which i eventually got back to. ever since we got back together we didnt really see each other, which was always an issue between us, he is just weird, lol. anyways about 8 months now i think im really done with him, i really believed that he was my first love, and he is i think, but i dont love him the same way i did before, now anymore, i grew so distant to him, and then he became so much closer, but was only the phone, it was like a long distance relationship while there wasnt really thousands of miles between us. i couldnt tell him i loved him like i did before, i felt bad, but i couldnt say it anymore. anyhow, i decided that i wouldnt see him until a change will happen, and that would be him spending more time with each other, i told him that its our last chance, and i cant deal with him anymore if it doesnt happen. so the weekend after that talk i ask him to go out, and he says um... uh... but i cant....um... every Saturday....i go with the guys....um... and i say shut the hell up, becasue its a total lie. got into a fight, finally i said u know what forget it, go have fun, and then i hung up. he called about a week later, after calling everyday for about two months, now a week later he calls me and says hi how are u, could u wake me up tomorrow morning, and i was like .....um... ha... um ... sure whatever.. i didnt really want to but i did. so i woke him up, but i was very cold toward him. ok finally that was the last time i talked to him, i have ended the relationship with him in my mind, but i havent told him, do i just leave it like this and he should get it, or do i need to call him and tell him that we are done, forever. i really dont want to call him and tell him that, i dont feel like telling him that, but i know he will eventually here it from our friends. i also was hoping that people who would read this, would understand that when u hope to get back with the person that you broke up with or broke up with u, saying that they will change, or you are going to change, or they tell you everything will be different, IT WON'T be different, no matter how much you try, people dont change that quick.
ridinbikes247 Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 im sort of having the same problem, my girlfriend just left me but it was only for about 4-5 months , we hung out alot for 2-3 months then the past 2 months shes been saying "well my friends wanna ahgn out and i coudlnt come and ****" and i asked her whyshe didnt ahng out with them when first met ..... why are you waiting 3 months after we hang out to start dissin me now and she is just being a bitch about it and shes just like what ever im jealous.... i want to stop talkin to her and all but its hard cause we see each other at least 3 times a week and we always end up hanging out and it just makes me wnt her more, but i can tell she dosnt give a **** about anyone, she just thinkins of her self.....im thinkin about just now calling her/answering her phone calls anymore, and next time we run into each other just not say anything and act like she isnt there....her lose...not myn
Author mehim Posted April 20, 2005 Author Posted April 20, 2005 see but i think that u need to actually tell her that u dont like what she is doing, and that you two need to talk about it first, and if you want to end it, then you can tell her that u r not interested anymore, thats the best thing you can do in ur situation.
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