ridinbikes247 Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 i met this girl about 3 months ago and she is waitress at a resturaunt, after about 4 times of eatting there and having her as my waitress i got her phone number..im 20 and shes 19 so were pretty young you could say....well we start hanging out alot and everything is doing really good, stay with me at my lake house, rode 4 wheelers all day, shed call me id call her kinda thing.......Then it changed, when we first met she said there was a club she would have love to take me to and when she get soff work we would go, so its been about 2 months now and she got off work early and she was goin to tha club, and guess what ?....she said i wasnt allowed to go and that shed call me when she gets out...well she never called and i asked why not and she said "well i was drunk and i passed out yada yada....well i was pissed then it just got worst, the next night i asked her to go see a movie and she says she was goin back out with her friends again and the same **** happend, so i confront her and tell her what i thought...if you like someone you should show it, you dont hang out with someone for 2 months then all of a sudden just stop calling them and hanging out with them...i dont wanna be played with...and shes just like ohhh, your just jealous and i need to relax but i think she was just a bitch who plays games....it just sucks that for 2 months it was awesome then just one day it all changed and she dosnt call me anymore or answer my phone calls or want to hang out...then when she does return my calls shes just like, ohh well i was busy and dumb stuff... so did i do the right thing to stop talkin to her or should i still try to get with her even tho she was a bitch ? DAMN she was HOTT i just think she stopped likin me and didnt wanna ahgn out anymore and just use me for when she had nuthin better to do and act like she still liked me
Marshbear Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 DAMN she was HOTT I think this says it all about your relationship. Would you be concerned if she wasn't that HOT? I think not. Yes, she's playing you and she's tired of you. SHe is moving on and you need to also...
Author ridinbikes247 Posted April 20, 2005 Author Posted April 20, 2005 if she calls me or sees me in public should i still be nice to her even how she done me, some part of me wants to just tell her how big a of a bitch she was, then the other part of me wants me to be nice and maybe she'll start wanting to hang out again ?...
Marshbear Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 If you see her in public I would say Hi and leave it at that. If she wants more she will let you know. If you seem desperate you will drive her away. Hot girls always have lots of attention so you need to play it cool ( if she still wants you ). I definately would not call her a bit*h. You are the one hung up not her. She is just avoiding you. This is what girls do when they move on....
Author ridinbikes247 Posted April 20, 2005 Author Posted April 20, 2005 stuff like this sucks, how can you hang out with some one for close to 3 months then one day just act like you dont care and never hang out again....and only answer my calls like twice a week ...maybe she is just to immature , i told her what i thought when we stopped talkin, if she liked me she should show it and she was just like well what ever, maybe i should just stop hanging out with her no matter what, and if she perhaps does call me one day just not answer or speak to her again...itd be her lose, basically
Numb Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 Get used to it bro, I'm sure it will happen to you many more times as it does to everyone else. You will also do this to some girl its just the way it goes.
ylwfvr Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 I am in the exact same boat but I been with this person for about 10 months - very rocky relationship... She would go out with her friends and would forget to call me. In fact, she told me that I was boring to hang out and that she needed her time with her friends. Just last weekend, she didn't even come home or call me for almost 2 days. Her answer is she was drunk and having fun with her friends. To add insult, she claims that I am too "desperate."
Author ridinbikes247 Posted April 21, 2005 Author Posted April 21, 2005 exaclty what this same chicks says man, word for word , what do you do about it? it bugs tha crap out of me, i dont want to talk to a chick like that but at times i hope we could get things to how they once were, but then again i know it will never be the same,...its just hard to face that fact....shes soppused to be callin me tonight cause we just got done eatting at a resturaunt tonight after 4 nights of not hanging out...but for once i think im not gonna answer her phone calls
ylwfvr Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 I think you and I both know what we have to do - NO CONTACT. I know this will be easier said then done - case in point, I just freaking picked up her call. She was bitching about how sick she was and how I was doing. I am planning to create a list of all the hurtful things she's done and keep it handy when I start getting weak. Hang in there. No one deserves to be treated with such disrespect.
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