alexwood Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 the girl im dating likes to sleep naked. i usualy wear s hirt and boxers. sh also sleeps with her dog so i fee sort of uncomfortable sleeping naked with her dog in her bed do you think its rude of me to do that/?
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Okay. First of all, I wouldn't sleep with ANYONE who has their DOG sleeping in the same bed WE'RE sleeping in. Sorry. No go. As far as her sleeping nekkie, a lot of people like sleeping like that. But, you've left out a lot of details. How long have you been dating her? How long have you KNOWN her? Have you become sexually intimate with her yet? Are you both only dating or are you both exclusive (boyfriend and girlfriend)?? . 3
preraph Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 No, of course not. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Everyone is different what they think is comfy to sleep in. I like to wear a little something, and I sleep with my dogs too. I do think it would be too tickly to sleep nude with my dogs. Just don't make any issue and do what you want.
losangelena Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 do you think its rude of me to do that/? No. If she has a problem with it, it's her problem. I know few people who would be comfortable sleeping with a strange dog next to them; even fewer who'd be willing to do it naked. Eesh. 2
Raena Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I don't understand all the fuss about her sleeping with her dog in the bed. Mine sleeps at the bottom of my bed every night.... and I sleep naked too. It's not like he gets under the covers with me. Sheesh. OP, if you don't feel comfortable sleeping naked, then don't. That's your choice. If you don't feel comfortable with her dog in the bed, then that's something you need to talk to her about. 2
wizer Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 My dog sleeps with me and my girlfriend, she gets under the covers, we're both naked. Sometimes I spoon my girlfriend, sometimes I spoon my dog. Is that so wrong? 5
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I don't understand all the fuss about her sleeping with her dog in the bed. Mine sleeps at the bottom of my bed every night.... and I sleep naked too. It's not like he gets under the covers with me. Sheesh. OP, if you don't feel comfortable sleeping naked, then don't. That's your choice. If you don't feel comfortable with her dog in the bed, then that's something you need to talk to her about. No one's making 'a fuss' about it, Raena. Each person is DIFFERENT and has their OWN PREFERENCE with regard to how they like to sleep. I actually like sleeping naked IF it's with a boyfriend or IF I'm ALONE. I absolutely would NOT EVER want to sleep naked with a DOG or cat or with any other pet. It's just my preference; and it's also a lot of other peoples' preferences as well. .
Gaeta Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Is the dog sleeping under the blanket? My dog sleeps on the foot of my bed on top of my blankets. Ex-boyfriend and I slept under the blanket naked or not.
Author alexwood Posted April 29, 2015 Author Posted April 29, 2015 ive only staye dthere twice. the dog sleeps on teh covers i just dont feel totally comfortable yet
DivorcedDad123 Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Ask her to crate the dog when you're sleeping over there. And,you're missing out on the nekkid sleeping together. Things happen more easily.
Gary S Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I love dogs, but really?! Seriously?! Move over little dog cause the big dog is movin' in! 1
Gaeta Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Ask her to crate the dog when you're sleeping over there. And,you're missing out on the nekkid sleeping together. Things happen more easily. Yes if the dog was crated before. Example my dog is 8 years old, I can't start crating him now but he will understand to get off my bed and go sleep on his bed. OP : What size the dog is?
Author alexwood Posted April 29, 2015 Author Posted April 29, 2015 its just the fact that i havent gotten use to the dog like one night it got between the sheets and i just sort of felt like being nude woud be uncomfortable
todreaminblue Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 the girl im dating likes to sleep naked. i usualy wear s hirt and boxers. sh also sleeps with her dog so i fee sort of uncomfortable sleeping naked with her dog in her bed do you think its rude of me to do that/? do you mean dog at the end of the bed sleeping or dog snoring on her pillow sleeping.......deb
jen1447 Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 If you're new to the bed and the home, the dog might actually be competing with you, so watch out. It likely doesn't want to move to third place in the pack and would prefer you did. If it chases you out of the bed, you're the omega. Weird but true-ish. 2
wizer Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I moved in with my gf 6 months ago and my 45 year old hound dog went with me. She wasn't thrilled with the idea of the dog sleeping with us but it's a compromise. She's got a 12 year old son, I've got a 7 year old dog, so fairs fair. The only problem is when one of us, usually her, wake up in the middle of the night, and the dog is laying sideways, between us, and we've been pushed to either side of the bed with like an inch to spare before we both fall off the edges.
Gaeta Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 If you're new to the bed and the home, the dog might actually be competing with you, so watch out. It likely doesn't want to move to third place in the pack and would prefer you did. If it chases you out of the bed, you're the omega. Weird but true-ish. That is true and it's up to the dog owner to fix this if she wants to keep her role as pack leader. No one that comes to my home command or reprimend my dog, it's my role as a pack leader to do so. If I let someone else command him I then demote myself in his eyes. Don't get me talking dogs, it's a passion and I won't stop :-)
todreaminblue Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 That is true and it's up to the dog owner to fix this if she wants to keep her role as pack leader. No one that comes to my home command or reprimend my dog, it's my role as a pack leader to do so. If I let someone else command him I then demote myself in his eyes. Don't get me talking dogs, it's a passion and I won't stop :-) my ex used to work away and the female rottie i owned would sleep at the foot of my bed guarding...when my ex came home one night she refused to let him get in bed with me......she was then reprimanded and delegated to floor space.....as i type this my second rottie xena is snoring in the chair next to me head hanging over the side because she doesnt fit int he chair....dogs need to definitely know who is in charge or they take over....i have four dogs and its a fine line between peace and anarchy throw the cats into the mix and its like a abbott and costello movie when i lose pack leader status........deb 1
todreaminblue Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 this wont push her away will it if she cares for you she would want you to be comfortable...in all honesty having a dog in the bed is hard even at the end fo the bed where i designate dogs if they jump up on my bed.......while i sleep ...i get them to lie on the floor normally....... when there are already two people in the bed a dog really doesnt have the room to sleep.....nor do the people........and when intimate time occurs....dogs have brains....its not in my mind a good idea to have a dog watch you mate......especially certain styles.....its a bit creepy......so do what makes you comfortable and maybe talk to her if you really arent comfortable with the dog in the bed with the two of you...sleep how you are comfortable if its boxers and a t shirt ...do it......thats what sleep is meant to be like.... ...deb
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