Xiang Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I think this might of gone in the friend section, here's the deal. My GF is in complete control of her female BFF, does everything she tells her to. It's interfering with our relaitonship honestly and idk what to do. I mean she listens to her more than me >.> to the point that it's just absurd. (it's like a mom/daughter thing). She was even set a curfew, so i had to cut my meet with her short. No silly questions, they are both in mid 20's. Ik how ridiculous this can sound. Idk with who to argue with, her or her bff. I'd lose either way from the look of it. What to do? Not like i can tell her to stop.
Diezel Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 You either talk to her about how this is affecting your relationship and hope for some sort of improvement or you break up with her and don't deal with this anymore.
d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 It's one thing to talk to your friends, but I have never heard of one friend asserting a curfew over another. What are the consequences of violating said curfew?
Author Xiang Posted April 29, 2015 Author Posted April 29, 2015 (edited) Her BFF will come over to slap her silly and get angry >.>. About it i guess. Because she is supposed to rest for a exam she has in 2 weeks. Now she has to be "home" and in bed by 10 cuz her friend said so. Sorry, this is unbelievable for me to, just started today. On another note, when she was sick. Her friend told her not to go out and rest. Even sent her home when she was out with friends, because she should be resting, and she did. Okay that seems like the right thing to do, but still... Really do all she is told by her? :| That was the first time i noticed it. And she is like "i wanna stay, but my BFF said, so i go". Edited April 29, 2015 by Xiang
d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 My suggestion: start dating adult women who can make their own decisions. 4
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