Shipsahoy Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I've been going out with this girl for about 6 months, at first I thought she was the best thing ever. She was really sweet, fun, laid back and caring. But she is changing so much I can't cope with her anymore. She will be grumpy for no reason, or give me attitude. Most of the time she just Denies it it says she's kist tired so ignore her, but I work all day and don't see why o should have to put up with her being miserable. If we argue she just ends up crying because I shout at her then never apologises. I do get a bit loud and she always complains when I call her names. But I don't unless she deserves it, she acts like a bitch and expects me to put up with it. I don't think she's being fair to me as I will help around the house and give her lots of attention. I just don't understand why she has to be in a bad mood then thinks she can win because I called her out. Should I just finish it because she never admits when she's wtong?
BetrayedH Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 I think a fundamental basis for a relationship should include an agreement to fight fair. No yelling or screaming, no swearing, no name calling, avoiding words like "always" and "never." I could go on. I suggest you two come up with your own. Take the initiative to clean up your own faults before judging her so harshly for hers. Learn to compromise. If that doesn't work, I suggest a final ultimatum about exactly what it is you need. And if that doesn't work, call it quits. Relationships are hard. The honeymoon phase always wears off. The trick is to figure out how to get thru the rough times, not the easy ones.
Clarence_Boddicker Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Nobody deserves abuse. Stop being abusive towards her. Sounds like you're out of the honeymoon period, or you're being a douche & she's reacting to it. 1
BetrayedH Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Nobody deserves abuse. Stop being abusive towards her. Sounds like you're out of the honeymoon period, or you're being a douche & she's reacting to it. Sounds like they're both being kinda douchey. I've never understood why people will stop themselves from treating their worst enemies like sh*t but have no problem coming home and laying into their family or significant other.
Author Shipsahoy Posted April 29, 2015 Author Posted April 29, 2015 I don't think I'm being douchey, but if she's gonna be a bitch why shouldn't I say so? She acts so sweet and innocent, just because she doesn't call me names but it's unfair on me that I go to her house and she's irritable. She doesn't work as many hours as me, she just moans that she has the house to clean and a horse she looks after. I do love her and she is really nice to me, but I'm fed up of her being grouchy and not apologizing, but expects me too just because I shouted. How can I tell her I need her to stop giving me attitude and say sorry and make an effort when it upsets me?
Eighty_nine Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Sounds like they're both being kinda douchey. this. OP you shouldn't be calling your GF names and she shouldn't be taking out her poor moods on you. stop calling her names, try to be more understanding and in turn she should try to treat you better. if she doesn't, leave.
Gloria25 Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 It takes two to tango.... She can't fight on her own...your type of response to her fans the flames. Dating is about to figure out if you're a match (unless you just want some company). You are finding out this is "who" she is...so, time for you to make a decision
Mrin Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 I think you should end it. You don't seem particularly inclined to understand what's going on here with her and she doesn't seem particularly inclined to hide her emotions. No need to prolong the agony and the yelling. Move along. 1
preraph Posted April 30, 2015 Posted April 30, 2015 It sounds like you have a bad temper. You shouldn't be yelling. And don't know why she's miserable, but she is and it isn't working, so break up. 1
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