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Carm Established Member

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Gaeta,

 

 

Sorry to say. This guy is yet another Dud....a dead end, someone who blows hot and cold.

 

 

Everyday you spend texting and talking to this guy is a day you can't get back! Any man who comes and goes cannot be trusted. Don't you want a man that you feel you can trust, who means what he says and says as he does??

 

 

Why bother with him? I wouldn't give him the time of day.

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Gaeta Established Member

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Why bother with him? I wouldn't give him the time of day.

 

Sexy Big buffed chest comes to mind but that won't fly with any of you right lol.

 

I got a few other prospects in the work. He's not a priority.

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Methodical Established Member

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Happy you have prospects. Work it, Gaeta :bunny:

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katiegrl Established Member

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Sexy Big buffed chest comes to mind but that won't fly with any of you right lol..

 

Lol, not if he has little integrity and is a flake, but everyone has their own standards I suppose.

 

But yay for your other prospects....have fun!

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Gary S Established Member

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Just talk to other guys, circular date, while he "works" on his communication skills. Maybe you'll meet another guy with a better chest!

GemmaUK Established Member

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I'm curious.

Does his usual texting when he drops off conversations ask for something from you, make a big statement about himself or leave you asking a question where you get no answer?

 

I'm not a huge texter compared to some men I have dated who have been all day every day - that drives me nuts but I am OK with a few texts over a day.

 

If I was dating someone who did the above though as his 'usual' style then I would be paying attention to that and wondering if he were self absorbed or insecure and needy maybe?

As in - needing reassurance that you will do xyz for him or are intrigued about his big news - but also him possibly liking the attention of not stating a date and time for a meet up simply because it would mean he will get a chase up message from you on it.

 

I would quit texting as much as possible (but then, I personally wouldn't miss it) and certainly not initiate any and see what happens.

Carm Established Member

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Sexy Big buffed chest comes to mind but that won't fly with any of you right lol.

 

I got a few other prospects in the work. He's not a priority.

 

 

Haha. Okay, had one of those guys for 4 years. Turned out he was a pathological liar (serious). The outside has to match the inside and I don't like the sounds of this guy.

 

 

Happy about your other prospects.

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He doesn't like texting all that much. And he's a lawyer, so he's very busy. But you're right, it is inconsiderate to ask you for a favor and then leave you hanging. But that is when you simply train him not to do that again by NOT waiting around for his reply and making other plans when he hasn't gotten back about something that specific in a few hours' time.

katiegrl Established Member

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>>So he texts me 'omg I just had my first course and I'm lost would you please have time to help me with this before I go crazy!!. <<

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Four years of college, three years of law school, and he can't figure this out? LOL

 

 

I am curious, are you an accountant Gaeta?

 

 

Something isn't quite jiving here....

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Four years of college, three years of law school, and he can't figure this out? LOL

 

Really? In all my years, I've learned that advanced multiple degrees are have no correlation to, nor are they any guarantee of, someone having their sh*t together.

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katiegrl Established Member

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Really? In all my years, I've learned that advanced multiple degrees are have no correlation to, nor are they any guarantee of, someone having their sh*t together.

 

Wait a second, are we talking about the same thing? I was referring to what he "allegedly" called her about -- help with an accounting problem.

 

 

I would think with a law degree he could figure out an accounting problem...but hell what do I know.

 

 

As an aside, I don't even think he's a lawyer, but that's just my gut.

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Gaeta Established Member

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I am curious, are you an accountant Gaeta?

 

Financial Comptroller

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Gaeta Established Member

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I would think with a law degree he could figure out an accounting problem...but hell what do I know.

 

Depends what kind of lawyer you are. They will understand generalities but will refer to a fiscal lawyer if it's out of their own field of expertise.

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He's not a bad texter, he's just not interested in communicating with YOU.

 

That's like saying someone who won't drive to your house is a bad driver.

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Gaeta Established Member

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He's not a bad texter, he's just not interested in communicating with YOU.

 

That's like saying someone who won't drive to your house is a bad driver.

 

Good point, I like the way you put it.

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He's not a bad texter, he's just not interested in communicating with YOU.

 

That's like saying someone who won't drive to your house is a bad driver.[QUOTE]

 

 

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My sister's ex-boyfriend.

 

 

Never wanted to spend time at HER house as apparently he was a lousy driver (had many accidents, etc.)... no joke. lol

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katiegrl Established Member

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Depends what kind of lawyer you are. They will understand generalities but will refer to a fiscal lawyer if it's out of their own field of expertise.

 

Okie doke Gaeta...you know what you're doing.

 

 

I'm just leary cuz of the last one, tis all.

 

 

Enjoy. :)

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Gaeta Established Member

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Okie doke Gaeta...you know what you're doing.

 

 

I'm just leary cuz of the last one, tis all.

 

 

Enjoy. :)

 

I am leary because of the 100 last ones lol

 

I have a lot of prospects right now, more that I can handle. If Mr. Jewelry doesn't rise above the crowd he will be left behind in the dust.

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Just be done with him. He not a bad texter, he's a simply doesn't give a crap to replied back simple as that.

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Carm Established Member

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I think he may have too many fish in the sea. Regardless, if a man is truly interested then they won't drop their texts.

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lil_missy Established Member

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Hi gaeta,

 

From posts like this, I can see how you ended up going on over 100?dates in short period of time.

 

This man is not worth your time just from what You've written in your opening post. Replies texts sporadically , keeps u hanging etc why do you even bother?

 

I wouldn't have written a thread bout him n just moved on about the first or sec time he dropped my text. End of story

 

U try to be accomodating to so many men with serious issues ( depression, doing laundry on sat rather than seeing u etc), it makes interesting threads. But for your own sake, please date someone that is "normal"?

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:rolleyes: to people who say texting isn't a form of communication. Has he picked up the phone and called you in between those texts? Probably not .

 

Gaeta, don't wait around for idiots like this guy. If he liked you enough he would be checking in with you at least once a day and have the courtesy to finish a conversation. Move on!

h0000 Established Member

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Can someone be really a bad texter? Or all of them are just not into you

Conners Established Member

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Can someone be really a bad texter? Or all of them are just not into you

 

I agree. When I was single, some guys pointed out I was a crappy texter because I "forgot" to reply. I was actually on my phone a lot. I texted the people I wanted to text and didn't care to text the people I wasn't interested in.

 

Although.. I think I have read before that Gaeta is in her 40s? I am early 20s so age could be a factor in this also.

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Gaeta Established Member

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I wouldn't have written a thread bout him n just moved on about the first or sec time he dropped my text. End of story

 

U try to be accomodating to so many men with serious issues ( depression, doing laundry on sat rather than seeing u etc), it makes interesting threads. But for your own sake, please date someone that is "normal"?

 

You're right, he was not worthy of a thread.

 

I would love to date a normal man. I need to find one first.

 

I got 4 prospects at the time, not counting mr. jewelry. You guys need to give me till Sunday night to filter that out and come back with a REAL normal prospect :-)

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