chelseamoon Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Hi my ex girlfriend broke up with 6 months back after 2 years. Saying didn't fancy anymore and just wanted to be friends. I was devastated but agreed for sake of kids involved from prev relationships and we still live together and have to at mo due to bills and kids(also note I'm a girl) anyways things were ok, but then I felt like she was taken advantage. She'd ask me mind her child odd time and I had no problem doing so but if i asked in return she'd be all snobby about it but do it. I still love her and she knows it. I wrote her a letter pouring out all my feelings but she didn't show any response, If i message her (i have to as if I sit her down she exnores me like a child or gets mad) anywys if i message her how i feel and say I miss her or can we do.something or talk.She won't reply or says busy. I'm at breaking point. I asked her to come upstairs to me last night to talk as iv had enuf, she was busy so I said after, then she replied tired going bed, tomo.night. So tonight I will try again. I feel like just going cold turkey on her now but that's not my character. I'm too soft and wish I didn't feel what I do for Her but I just want her to talk to me and us to be good if only friends again. Pls dont say tell her move out that will be last resort. Just need her to believe now I really loved her and she's blown it or get her chasing me. Any way to stop her been a spoilt brat and not talking. Without her communicating. Then there's nothing.advice pls.
PegNosePete Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 You can't make someone think or do something that they don't want to. She already knows that you still love her, and apparently she doesn't give 2 short ships. Tell her to move out. 2
JohnsonBaby Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 The best revenge is indifference .show her you re happy without her .
ExpatInItaly Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 You can't make someone think or do something that they don't want to. She already knows that you still love her, and apparently she doesn't give 2 short ships. Tell her to move out. Please listen to this above, OP. It's clear your ex isn't interested and you're doing yourself a world of harm by continuing to pursue her. Protect your own heart and go to the last resort: get your own places.
Toodaloo Posted April 29, 2015 Posted April 29, 2015 Chealseamoon you have been trying to get your ex back for over 6 months now. Please stop. Its not good for you or her. Time to move on. Time to ask her to move out. You are not going to get over her while you are living with her...
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