mortensorchid Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 I googled this article just for the hell of it. If interested, read on: 11. Common Ground - 30 Ways to Get a Guy to Ask You out ... I for one do not agree with any of this. Of course, there is nothing that you can do about getting one man in particular to ask the woman out. After my embarrassing turn with the math teacher months ago, I decided I would never subject myself to this foolishness ever again. (Just for review, I got his cell number and we were texting after I stopped working at the school. I asked him want to hang out sometime? He texted back "I am not interested in you romantically." I texted back "Well love makes you fat, doesn't it?" No contact since.) I don't think even if you follow these guidelines as listed in the article, or dress like a hooker, that you will get a certain man to ask out a woman ever. What to others think? And I say that because I am so bitter, having had every man I've ever been with dump me for some trashy girl who takes advantage of him or causes problems.
GemmaUK Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 No one can make anyone ask them out. You do sound bitter though. Take a break and have fun instead of concentrating on relationships or meeting anyone. 1
Satu Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) If you want love, be loving. If you want friendship, be friendly. If you want to be valued, value others. If you want kindness, be kind. To be understood, be understanding. If you want peace, be peaceful. ... That list can go on to infinity. We can only receive what we give. Edited April 28, 2015 by Satu 2
Shining One Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 I decided I would never subject myself to this foolishness ever again.I hope you understand that if you kept doing this, you would develop thicker skin and you won't be so bothered by it next time. Seriously, one rejection is nothing. One Halloween a few years ago, I was rejected 14 times in one night. The good news: Number 15 said yes.
mammasita Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 I've been rejected numerous times. Doesn't stop me....well the fact that I have a man now does. OP, What you did with that teacher was far from foolish. You took a chance. So he didn't reciprocate, but what if he did? You tried and at least you know. Had you not have tried you'd always wonder. 1
todreaminblue Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 I think most of the points have validity none more so than be approachable and be clear....open and friendly helps.....i do agree though this doesnt mean that they necessarily will ask you out if they dont want to...but i know a guy who is keen to know you would......and thats the only type of guy that i would want to date.... i am sorry you have met some fickle characters.....doesnt mean that you wont meet the right guy for you......but bitterness intercepts open and friendly.....you have to let the bitterness go and do what makes you happy for a while...guys like happy....then again ..we like happy too not bitter.....you get what you give......smilin...good luck.....deb 1
Satu Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 Always keep an open mind and an open heart. Then you can let people in. 1
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