geronimo Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 I'm just rambling here, but does anyone believe in horoscopes and their love compatibility? I guess I knew my ex and I wouldn't work out because of that, I'm a pisces and she was an aquarius. We had a 5 year relationship and to me it was great but it ended, its been 5 months now and I'm beginning to come to terms with it. I guess the worst part is she moved onto someone else a week after we broke up and they've been together ever since. I keep hoping that karma will get her for what she did, but then again I keep hearing that bad things happen to good people all the time and vice versa. Her new guy is a sagittarius and from what I see they're supposed to be a great match, and obviously that pisses me off that she left me the way she did and now she's all happy and might have actually found greener pastures. I know I treated her like a princess, and maybe in the larger scale of things I might be happier with this happening and might find a better gf, but at this moment this all feels so ****ty, I can't believe she left a 5 year relationship and jumped into another one right away. I guess I'm just hoping she gets whats coming to her for what she did but reality is it might never happen... and what sucks more is I love her so much so at the same time i don't want her to be hurt and I do want to be happy for her but the way she handled this just pisses me off.
dangerbang Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Only absolute morons believe in it. You're really clutching at straws here, lol. 2
Author geronimo Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 lmao I know, pathetic isn't it, I guess I just need some type of validation and thats what I'm looking for.
pteromom Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 The reason you didn't work out has nothing to do with when you were born. And whether she and this new guy will be happy together has nothing to do with when they were born. If you match the description of a Pisces, you may want to find people with the PERSONALITY TRAITS of compatible signs, because those types of personalities will work well with yours... but it really has nothing to do with the astrological label slapped on you. It's fun to read and consider astrology, but you can't really put stock into it. - Your friendly neighborhood Aries who is NOTHING like an Aries is described 1
Author geronimo Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 The reason you didn't work out has nothing to do with when you were born. And whether she and this new guy will be happy together has nothing to do with when they were born. If you match the description of a Pisces, you may want to find people with the PERSONALITY TRAITS of compatible signs, because those types of personalities will work well with yours... but it really has nothing to do with the astrological label slapped on you. It's fun to read and consider astrology, but you can't really put stock into it. - Your friendly neighborhood Aries who is NOTHING like an Aries is described I agree, I'm alot like a Pisces I guess thats why I tend to lean towards that belief. But at the same time her and I were very compaitable it just came down to the fact that we're too young and ultimately she wants to see what else is out there. She used the excuse of having different religions and her parents not being ok with it to get out of the relationship but I knew it was BS when she started dating this guy. It is what it is i guess
Jimmyjackson Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Nope, absolute nonsense. This clip is from a comedy series but it's actually true what Sheldon says. 2
d0nnivain Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 I like to read them the day after It's more entertaining to see if they came true. lol
Jenmarie Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Basic sign love compatibility? No, not so much. But with birth charts, yes I definitely believe in it. It's accurate and very fitting. However, you're not going to know really anything with just your sun sign/basic horoscope sign. Birth charts are a must.
Author geronimo Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 Nope, absolute nonsense. This clip is from a comedy series but it's actually true what Sheldon says. LOL i dont remember this episode from big bang but hilarious
joseb Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) The reason they "work" is that the writing is always so fluffy that anyone can associate with any horoscope if they think it it theirs. Think about it logically for 5 minutes and you will realise that it is complete crap. But everyone is entitled to believe whatever they want Edited April 28, 2015 by joseb
joseb Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 But everyone is entitled to believe whatever they want Too late to edit my post. To offer a counterpoint, the fact that you "knew" you and your ex wouldn't work out because of horoscopes shows why these kind of beliefs can be dangerous.
Author geronimo Posted April 28, 2015 Author Posted April 28, 2015 No I'm just saying that. Tbh I always thought her and I were gonna end up getting married and a stupid part of me still believes that it might happen. But that's probably cuz she was my first and it was a long first relationship too. I still wish that maybe one day she'll come back but I don't think I can ever forgive her for what she did, maybe many years down the road but I hope I'm happy with someone else long before that.
Jimmyjackson Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 No I'm just saying that. Tbh I always thought her and I were gonna end up getting married and a stupid part of me still believes that it might happen. But that's probably cuz she was my first and it was a long first relationship too. I still wish that maybe one day she'll come back but I don't think I can ever forgive her for what she did, maybe many years down the road but I hope I'm happy with someone else long before that. If you can't forgive her then it's done for good no matter what happens. I think you know that deep down.
Author geronimo Posted April 28, 2015 Author Posted April 28, 2015 Yea I guess but idk man I'm all over the place. What she did was wrong, threw away a 5 year relationship, used a bs excuse to get out of it when the truth was she wanted to be with someone else, who she got with, within weeks of us breaking up. If she were to come back, part of me will always be scared that she might do the same **** again but part of me wants her back so badly cuz I don't think I'll ever find anyone like her and we had such a good relationship and it's so hard for me to let that go.
Jimmyjackson Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 Yea I guess but idk man I'm all over the place. What she did was wrong, threw away a 5 year relationship, used a bs excuse to get out of it when the truth was she wanted to be with someone else, who she got with, within weeks of us breaking up. If she were to come back, part of me will always be scared that she might do the same **** again but part of me wants her back so badly cuz I don't think I'll ever find anyone like her and we had such a good relationship and it's so hard for me to let that go. You can't hold onto someone because you fear the unknown. Ask yourself if you could trust her again, be honest and you'll find your answer. From reading your post it seems you have doubts...I think they speak volumes.
Author geronimo Posted April 28, 2015 Author Posted April 28, 2015 Yea you're 100% right, I am afraid of the unknown and I think thats why I want to latch onto this dead relationship. I do have doubts 100%, but I always felt that this is only cuz she was immature and also cuz she wondered what else was out there, but now she has experienced that, and were to come back, she would realize its not what she expected and that she had it good with me. Sometimes the best way to learn is through your mistakes. So if it came down to that and she genuinely felt bad for what she did and owned up to it, that would be the only way I would take her back, otherwise theres no point.
joseb Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 Don't put your life on hold waiting for something that will probably never happen. And if she did see the errors of her ways, there is a good chance that you would always resent her for it and/or she would do it again. 1
Author geronimo Posted April 28, 2015 Author Posted April 28, 2015 Don't put your life on hold waiting for something that will probably never happen. And if she did see the errors of her ways, there is a good chance that you would always resent her for it and/or she would do it again. Yea I'm not putting my life on hold, I am trying to move on, heck if she can do it, I can too. I know theres no point wishing or seeking for advice on the matter if she will come back or not cuz no one really knows. Just gotta see how it will play out. Whatever's meant to be will be. It has been 5 months now, I do feel better than I did in the beginning but I still have strong feelings for her, thats why I have decided to stay away from dating atm. Just trying to focus on myself, getting back in shape and school. Its just really hard when she is constantly on my mind.
joseb Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 It has been 5 months now, I do feel better than I did in the beginning but I still have strong feelings for her, thats why I have decided to stay away from dating atm. Just trying to focus on myself, getting back in shape and school. Sounds like you are doing fine. Keep up up, it gets easier over time. 1
Jimmyjackson Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 Yea you're 100% right, I am afraid of the unknown and I think thats why I want to latch onto this dead relationship. I do have doubts 100%, but I always felt that this is only cuz she was immature and also cuz she wondered what else was out there, but now she has experienced that, and were to come back, she would realize its not what she expected and that she had it good with me. Sometimes the best way to learn is through your mistakes. So if it came down to that and she genuinely felt bad for what she did and owned up to it, that would be the only way I would take her back, otherwise theres no point. Do you want somebody back who leaves you to find something else? if she loves you she doesn't need to find something else. Don't let her make a mug of you.
JFReyes Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 For the longest time I was skeptic about astrology, but I'm changing my mind about it. I mean serious astrology, not the daily snippets of entertainment on the newspapers.
amaysngrace Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 I'd rather throw a coin into a fountain and make a wish. 1
stillafool Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 If you were to believe in Astrology and she is an Aquarius you would give up because apparently the females of that sign are the hardest to settle down. I think since you both are young she does want to date around and experience life before she settles down. It would be wise if you do the same thing. There is so much life to live so get out there and just go for it. 1
nick01675 Posted April 28, 2015 Posted April 28, 2015 someone wise once said - “Astrology/Horoscope and all these mystical things are generally signs of a weak mind; therefore as soon as they are becoming prominent in our minds, we should see a physician, take good food, and rest.” 1
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