Jenu88 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Been dating this girl for about 2 months now. She sent me a text today saying we should just be friends. I think I messed up by over-pursuing, not presenting a challenge and confidence. I sent a text back with just "I see. Talk to you later then!". I wanted to sound indifferent. Was this OK? Also, she will be at a party I will be attending in one week. I really like this girl, but will it be possible to regain her interest just after one week? I read advices that suggests no contacts MAY bring them back. It also suggested to talk to her and leave convos very short, look very happy, and most of all act like you don't care about what happened, but will this work?
DoesntGetIt Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Odds are she will never come back around. However, your only real chance at it is to no initiate contact. Don't seek her out at the party, just be there having fun, laughing, hopefully even talking to women and let her come up to you and say hi. Keep it short and light, and then go back to enjoying the party. Any chase/pursue from you will only guarantee friendship.
Mjm1014 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Okay so you're friendzoned, but I do believe since you've only been seeing her for two months and you were JUST friend zoned there might still be a chance. Here's how to let the odds be in your favor. 1. Cut all contact. If she calls/texts-IGNORE 2. At the party, still say hello but cut your interaction very short. -Look like you're having a good time without her -chat up other females, this should make her jealous if she cares -No drama at the party. Do not bring up where you stand -No advances romantically -Say goodbye at party, but don't go out of your way to 3. If you play your cards right at the party you should hear from her begging to give her another chance. If not move on. FriendZone is very hard if not impossible to get out of. Good luck
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