bandaid12 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Two months ago I met a girl that just broke with her boyfriend, we kept seeing each other in 4 occasion in a group. She talked to me, asked for my number, and clearly she wanted me to ask her out. I started to like her, I knew it was a bad idea, but I asked her out on a date, then that night she said that we should only be friends because for her it was too soon. I told her that I kind of liked her, and since I was starting to develop feelings, I said that I liked her more than a friend. Couple of weeks Iater, I asked her out to hangout as friends, she said sorry, that she didnt want to after what happened. So, I haven't asked her out since then. I just texted her, she would reply right away, but since I would always initiate texting, I completely stopped. She will never text. She knows I like her, and its kind of awkward and little bit uncomfortable for her. I dont know if she likes me back. Almost 2 months have passed, we keep seeing each other at parties or whenever we hang in a group because of my circle of friends. I try to avoid or ignore her, but whenever she sees me, she says Hi along with my name and waves her hand. I dont know if she is just being friendly. To be honest, the more I see her, the more I like her. She is very cute. And couldnt be more sadder, a friend of mine told me that she was using dating sites. what to do? Should I ask her again? Should I start texting her again? She broke with her boyfriend approximately 2 months ago.
d0nnivain Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Talk to her at the next party & gauge where her head & heart are at. If you think she is healed, ask her out one last time but you may already be friendzoned.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 (edited) OP I think you ruined things with her. Here's how I assess it: She breaks up, she's hurt and thinks a date with you would be fun to help take her mind off things.On this date she didn't feel chemistry for you - so she gave you the friends speech. Most likely she didn't feel attracted enough to sleep with you (casually or otherwise), and its not because you're such close friends and she doesn't want to ruin things.You declared your feelings for her way too soon, and scared her off.Weeks later she knows that you declared your feelings for her after one date even after she rejected you - because of this she knows if she hangs out around you, you're probably going to pine for her.Asking her out again is just going to get you rejected (again) and make her more distant from you.You and this girl don't seem close, so you should probably focus your time and energy on other available Women.She's using Dating Sites because she wants a relationship (and sex) with someone that she's attracted to.Talk to her at the next party & gauge where her head & heart are at. If you think she is healed, ask her out one last time but you may already be friendzoned. I'm pretty sure he's friendzoned. She gave him the friends speech already, and then he proceeded to declare his feelings for her after one date. All of her subsequent actions show that he scared her off. Actually this reads as WORSE than friendzoned - he's not in her zone at all. Edited April 27, 2015 by barcode88
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