thorin Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 (edited) 35 days of no contact, 2 months after break up, no breadcrumbs, and she texts and calls me through her friend, with whom I have been texting and meeting up from time to time. And she sent me her photo. Of course I ignored the calls, and after their texts, I blocked her friend either. But the memories kind of came back, and I was doing so good already :/ Well, I guess maintaining contact with mutual friends is a bad idea after all. Why can't they just let go and forget about me completely.....? Oh, forgot to mention, she was with some dude. I guess he's just a friend, he's ugly, but I don't know... uh Edited April 26, 2015 by thorin
embeu Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Sounds like you are doing good when you ignore her. I would have never been strong enough to do that. You are lucky my friend. My ex went stone cold on me, no breadcrumbs no nothing. At least you know you are on her mind, and the fact that you can ignore her attempts at contact gives you a little power in the break up (I assume she dumped you?). Stay strong! 1
Author thorin Posted April 26, 2015 Author Posted April 26, 2015 Yeah, she dumped me. And huh, believe me, I want to contact her, but I'm scared I'll find out about something I wouldn't wanna know about. I'm not strong - after that I feel like I only ignored her to make her angry, or to make her miss me, out of pure revenge...not because I don't care, no, not at all, unfortunately... I just hope I won't hear from her again, it only makes the whole process more difficult for me. But she still has ways to contact me, through fb friends, or from another number... And right now I can't wait till I call her friend tomorrow and tell her I won't meet with her on Tuesday (we've agreed to go out for a beer or two) - pathetic :/
embeu Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Getting over a break up is hard either way. I was so desperat to hear from her about why she decided to break up and how she handled it that I have searched this forums to see if maybe she postet about the break up here, THAT my friend is desperat. Moving on is hard, but doing so knowing that she cares for you will make it easier in the long run. I am afraid i will look back on my break up for a long time wondering all these questions if she ever cared. At least you wont have to do that, and you can move on knowing she cared for you and missed you. 1
Author thorin Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 I was keeping NC on my ex, now her friend started NC with me...wow, it all seems so childish right now.
d0nnivain Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 You are better off severing all ties. Your friend remained your link to her which wasn't good for you. Her drunk text was nothing. . .perhaps an alcohol fueled pity party because she was drunk & there was no one around to scratch her itch. Leave them both be.
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