Guevara33 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Hi this is my story as short as possible: Met her in 2011 she was traveling in my country (Brazil), I was 20, she was 24. We were together, I hosted her in my parents house and we were sleeping together and being with each other 24/7 for 1 month. We had a strong connection, it was beautiful. But she had to go back to France finish her masters and everything. Saw her again for a week in 2012 in france. It's been 2,5 years we dont see each other... We never was in a serious relationship - therefore there was no breakup. In the past year she said "we will see each other again soon" and "we can't loose hope". But being really realistic here: Even if we get so see each other again, for how long? 2 weeks, 1 month? I need to move on! I need to lose hope, I know I need NC, but how? How can I block her from FB without looking imature? I just want to be free again, none of the girls I've been with meanwhile are like her. I can't fall in love with them, It's like I can't feel anything for any other, but her. Help me please, give me some light!
NC-Thomas Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 (edited) You can't be friend while moving on. Those are mutually exclusive. So yes, in order for you to be mentally fit to other woman and yourself, you need to remove this girl from your life. So it is vital that you block her. (and perhaps tell her you have to do so in order to move on, she will understand) Don't put your life on hold for someone that is emotionally or physically unavailable. Edited April 26, 2015 by NC-Thomas
Ruby65 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 You can go No Contact without looking immature simply by letting her know you need a period without contact so you can move on. Wish her the best and thank her for understanding. Then go ahead and block! No worries.
TunaCat Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 I've been very good friends for nearly 20 years with the guy who is now my ex. Unfortunately, yes you have to go NC no matter what. Even if you two were best friends. You're going NC to heal from the relationship. Going NC on my ex has been rough, but it's mostly because he's my best friend I feel like I had a double loss. I lost the friendship & I lost the relationship.
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