Angeleyez2583 Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 This is hard for me right now. My ex is in two of my classes (we broke up almost 6 weeks ago). Everything is so comfortable. I have not felt this comfortable around an ex before (my friends have commented on how they have never seen two people broken up get along so well). We flirt and laugh and it's almost as if we're going out again. We were outside talking yesterday, and we looked eachother in the eyes and I swear I almost kissed him. We both turned away. He's gotten jealous last week. We were also talking yesterday, and I was saying how I was not ready to date. He goes "I am..." and I go really!?! like unexpectly.. and he goes.. I just wanted to see how you'd react... yeah. I can't take this much more. It's scary. I don't know how I'd go about cutting him off. He sits by me in class. So what would I say to him. I don't want to lose his friendship, but this is so hard because every time I see him I get butterflies. And he always asked about the alcohol (which I have not drank since the night we broke up, and the only reason he broke up with me). Classes are over in 3 weeks, so should I just cut him off now (he's helping me move) or just be nice until I see him for the last time?
greenhorn Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 Frankly speaking I could never understand the logic of being friends after breakup. How can you be just that indifferent immediately after breakup ? I don't think anyone is that 'cool'. If you be friends then it is certain that one of the stake holder will have some dangling hope and it will have some messy ramificaitons.Things might be easy going for now but might not be always. I guess that give yourself some time for becoming friends with him. An Ex can never help to move on by remaining in touch, he/she can only rub it in. good luck
LoveAlways Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 I agree. The break up is completely futile if you're "flirting, getting along well with each other and being friendly". You might as well be together because whats the difference between how you are now and how you are when you're together other than the physical part? Anyway, it's unfair how you're treating each other because its going to hurt you sooner or later when one of you get together with someone else or you simply realise the contact has to get less to be able to move on. IMHO I think you guys might as well be together.
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