Author FaithInTheDark Posted April 26, 2015 Author Posted April 26, 2015 haha thanks for the feed back, very interesting to hear peoples outlook. i recently had a buddy come through town, we were never anything more then buddies,... he randomly called me to get together for a drink while he was in town. he invited me back to his hotel which again i thought was harmless since hes just a friend. he kissed me which took me by surprise, one thing led to another and we did sleep together. we both said the sexual encounter was not something we had planned. i always found him to be a catch and definitely carried some sex appeal. i guess afterwards, i was curious if he had always been attracted to me during the time we were hanging out or was just looking to get laid. pondering how the male mind works i suppose lol
loveweary11 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 hi, so im curious about a guys outlook in terms of sex and attraction. my male friend recently went on a blind date with a woman, and he passed up the opportunity to sleep with her because he said she wasn't attractive. which i found surprising since i thought men would sleep with anyone that had the chance with. will guys make a move to sleep with a girl even if they're not attractive to them? or do men have standards with sex and a womans appearance? is it true men will literally sleep with anyone they can? Where did you ever hear that?? Absolutely incorrect. We have standards... pretty high ones sometimes. 2
loveweary11 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 I was helpless to my standreds. The first girl was attracted to that taught me of such, Winona Ryder. Yes can see wonderfull women everywhere, but nothing changes that simple child like awe of all the types of women on earth...she was the first even noticed before even knew what in a romantic way ment. Friends with pin ups, girls covered in suds on cars...no dice. I think this is how most men's standred or ideal type starts. They might get distracted or branch out. Just for everyone...there is always that first that floors you pure and carves something into your mind. I think you're absolutely correct. My ideal of perfection was created while I was a kid growing up in the "Land of the Tall Blondes." At 2:10 in this video, my life was forever changed. :love: This was the first female I nearly died just by looking at. Remember, i had never seen one like this before. I grew up with tall blondes as far as the eye could see. Damn... this video is going to make me look old.. 2
neowulf Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 hi, so im curious about a guys outlook in terms of sex and attraction. my male friend recently went on a blind date with a woman, and he passed up the opportunity to sleep with her because he said she wasn't attractive. which i found surprising since i thought men would sleep with anyone that had the chance with. will guys make a move to sleep with a girl even if they're not attractive to them? or do men have standards with sex and a womans appearance? is it true men will literally sleep with anyone they can? Never really was wired to "screw anything in a skirt". If there's no attraction, I'm not going to jerk the poor woman around just to get laid. Mind you, I'm 36, so maybe that's a "grown up" thing.
Vercetti Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 (edited) I think you're absolutely correct. My ideal of perfection was created while I was a kid growing up in the "Land of the Tall Blondes." At 2:10 in this video, my life was forever changed. :love: This was the first female I nearly died just by looking at. Remember, i had never seen one like this before. I grew up with tall blondes as far as the eye could see. Damn... this video is going to make me look old.. Hah...when I branch out always seems to be 60s Italian films. Mission Stardust. Anyhow, you might like the lost planet of prehistoric women. Just saying. So funny...when a kid you just want to run off with them alone and have them into you for some reason. Perhaps not much different from being an adult. Oh and vid does not show your age, if we were both dating in the same place...would step on each other's toes. Edited April 26, 2015 by Vercetti added a sentence...
loveweary11 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Hah...when I branch out always seems to be 60s Italian films. Mission Stardust. Anyhow, you might like the lost planet of prehistoric women. Just saying. So funny...when a kid you just want to run off with them alone and have them into you for some reason. Perhaps not much different from being an adult. Oh and vid does not show your age, if we were both dating in the same place...would step on each other's toes. I'll check out what you're talking about. You know, like 3 girlfriends and my ex wife all pretty much looked exactly like Susanna Hoffs in the face. I didn't realize it until your post. I'll agree on Wynona Ryder too. Early stuff with her in it. 1
jay1983 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 hi, so im curious about a guys outlook in terms of sex and attraction. my male friend recently went on a blind date with a woman, and he passed up the opportunity to sleep with her because he said she wasn't attractive. which i found surprising since i thought men would sleep with anyone that had the chance with. will guys make a move to sleep with a girl even if they're not attractive to them? or do men have standards with sex and a womans appearance? is it true men will literally sleep with anyone they can? Same thing happened to me, but the girl was really unattractive. Men sleep with anything is highly exaggerated. I could get on a dating site and plow through a large fraction of women on there, but I'm good, I don't want sex that bad.
Gary S Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 It depends on the person, everybody's attraction bar varies. People love to exaggerate and embellish, but no, not all men are easy. Beauty does not impress me if she's not nice, I don't care if she's a supermodel. Just because men are generally easier does not mean men want all women. 1
Weezy1973 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Generally speaking when it comes to no strings sex (i.e. casual sex) men's standards towards physical appearance go down and women's standards go up. When it comes to long term, monogamous, marriage type relationships, men's standards towards physical appearance go up and women's go slightly down (in that they consider more qualities). But, research shows that couples match up pretty equally in terms of physical attractiveness. 2
hotpotato Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 haha thanks for the feed back, very interesting to hear peoples outlook. i recently had a buddy come through town, we were never anything more then buddies,... he randomly called me to get together for a drink while he was in town. he invited me back to his hotel which again i thought was harmless since hes just a friend. he kissed me which took me by surprise, one thing led to another and we did sleep together. we both said the sexual encounter was not something we had planned. i always found him to be a catch and definitely carried some sex appeal. i guess afterwards, i was curious if he had always been attracted to me during the time we were hanging out or was just looking to get laid. pondering how the male mind works i suppose lol Didnt plan that my butt. Pretty much anytime a man is trying to get you alone, he is trying to have sex. Also, ive never had a male friend who didnt pyt moves on me. 3
DoesntGetIt Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Considering I have a text in my phone that says "You could have ****ed me." no guys don't just sleep with anyone. Now, if a dry spell lasts way too long, the standards may drop quite a bit, but it never hits the anyone with a pulse phase.
SJC2008 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Most men lower their standards for casual sex but it doesn't mean we throw them out the window. 1
Blade96 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 is it true men will literally sleep with anyone they can?" No. Despite what society says (that men are horndogs) they do have standards. (from me who has male friends who I've talked to about this)
fitnessfan365 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Well let's be real here. Physical attraction plays a part. I mean a 300lb woman could have the best personality ever, but that doesn't mean I want her suffocating me in bed either. However, what truly turns me on is mental stimulation. If a woman doesn't have personality and the ability to be suggestively playful, I'll get bored regardless of how physically attractive she is or what she dresses like.
lollipopspot Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Just because men are generally easier does not mean men want all women. Well you should tell that to some guys on this site who imagine that every woman is beating off men with a stick and saying that all women have "their choice" of men. Part of the stereotype the OP refers to is promoted by lonely guys who frequent this board!
road Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 haha thanks for the feed back, very interesting to hear peoples outlook. i recently had a buddy come through town, we were never anything more then buddies,... he randomly called me to get together for a drink while he was in town. he invited me back to his hotel which again i thought was harmless since hes just a friend. he kissed me which took me by surprise, one thing led to another and we did sleep together. we both said the sexual encounter was not something we had planned. i always found him to be a catch and definitely carried some sex appeal. i guess afterwards, i was curious if he had always been attracted to me during the time we were hanging out or was just looking to get laid. pondering how the male mind works i suppose lol There is only one reason a man invites a woman to his room. Specially after he buys her drinks. 3
road Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Well you should tell that to some guys on this site who imagine that every woman is beating off men with a stick and saying that all women have "their choice" of men. Part of the stereotype the OP refers to is promoted by lonely guys who frequent this board! From reading on LS. The top 3rd of men and women (not just based on looks but their overall desirability) have no problem finding a partner. The middle 3rd of women, well the half that realize they can not pull in a top 3rd man have no problem puling in the mid 3rd men. The other would not have that much of a problem if they were not holding out for a top 3rd man. This leaves half of the mid 3rd men unable to pull in a woman that has equal partner rating. The lower 3rd men and women are there because of any reason or combination, social skills, economic, career, looks. Some can make corrections and elevate themselves. But whether 3rd people are grouped in they all should seek ways to improve.
hotpotato Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 There is only one reason a man invites a woman to his room. Specially after he buys her drinks. Truth. He doesn't want to hold hands and sing kumbaya.
loveweary11 Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 (edited) Testosterone is a funny thing. It will make a guy do some scary sh*t. Most men I know, myself included, have slept with at least one woman they were not even slightly attracted to. It's all a matter of timing. If that ugly chick happens along at the right time, things might happen. I think most of the guys acting like they would not do it are just trying to look cooler to the ladies on here. Actually, not trying to look cool. Never in my life have i been with even a slightly overweight or out of shape girl. Never with one I didn't find attractive either. When that moment you are taking about sneaks up, I get a hold of girls i already know and find attractive... then find one of them who wants to hang out. Have done the same thing since 8th grade when all the guys used to go visit this one really heavy girl. I also am texting with girls all week long and have weekend plans with one of them anyway, so that moment doesn't come up much. Edited April 27, 2015 by loveweary11
MGX Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 hi, so im curious about a guys outlook in terms of sex and attraction. my male friend recently went on a blind date with a woman, and he passed up the opportunity to sleep with her because he said she wasn't attractive. which i found surprising since i thought men would sleep with anyone that had the chance with. will guys make a move to sleep with a girl even if they're not attractive to them? or do men have standards with sex and a womans appearance? is it true men will literally sleep with anyone they can? I think men generally tend to have lower standards than women do, but men have their attraction limits. Sometimes sex is all some men are after and they don't care about a woman's appearance. They aren't going to marry her or bring her to mother.
MGX Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 There is only one reason a man invites a woman to his room. Specially after he buys her drinks. Of course...She's too smashed to tell you where she lives to drop her off, so you have her crash on your couch until she recovers from her hangover!
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