Colleen Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 Okay so here is my dilemma.. My boyfriend and I recently just broke-up. He was the one who brought it up and I agreed completely that we should . We broke up because we rushed into things way too quickly and the flame had been seeming to burn out if you will. We decided to remain friends. Only now I am thinking breaking up was a bad idea. I miss him very much. I haven't called him since our breakup last week and he hasn't called me. . Who should call whom? What do I do to get him back with out seeming needy?? Help..Thanks--
LoveAlways Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 Well you need to ask yourself a few questions before rushing into things all over again, which was apparently the reason you guys broke up: Are you sure you want to get back into things, knowing you will simply take off where you left off - i.e the flame will burn out soon again (if it already was) after only a few days of getting back together? Do you miss HIM, or the company he provided? And if you do really want him back - for the right reasons - be classy about it: Remember he broke up with you so start with a friendly gesture (a phonecall to see how he is) and put the ball in his court-ask him how he's been, how he's feeling and then leave it at that. Then, see whether he brings you up and whether his answers reflect wanting to get back together. If they dont, take some more time to think about whether you want to be with someone who is not really sure they want to be with you.
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