Rejected Rosebud Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 Do move on! But please be a stand-up lady and say goodbye and I really hope you will forget about that mirroring or whatever next time - games. 2
writergal Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 No. I was making a play on words akin to your "afoot." Oh haha! Sorry! Dense fog in my brain this morning (thicker than usual)! 1
Author PumpkinLumpkin Posted April 26, 2015 Author Posted April 26, 2015 I was about to let this thread die, but I am surprised with the amount of ppl who think I should end it by talking with him. The facts are: 1. He told me it's none of his biz if I date other people in Nov '14 2. I told him I am moving on in Feb '15 3. We are not committed. Do I really need to talk to him about where my position is now? The reason we are still seeing each other is because he was going into surgery and sounded despondent...and I really wanted to see him one last time. (I might never see him again if he died on the OR table.) So I saw him right before surgery…passionate night. And since that time, everything seemed like it was progressing…texts all day, seeing him more often, cooking a ton of meals, helping him keep his spirits up, keeping him company, letting down my guard, and sex. Yes, there was progress but it was ALL ABOUT HIM. AGAIN. So why does there need to be yet another conversation about "ending" it? It's already been ended in Feb. I think the most effective way is to let things peter out, keep declining his invites. I think it will be dangerous for me to see him…cannot keep our hands off each other, and it will be back to square one again. I can't be sure, but he also might be feigning more pain more than he's really in because he knows I will dote on him any time he winces. Sometimes he can barely walk across the room, then the next day he'll tell me he went to dinner with his friends. ???? I'm just tired of this and don't see the point in clarifying for the third time our non relationship. What more can I say? He obviously doesn't and hasn't wanted to address it. Neither do I. Anyway I've already turned down three of his dates and he hasn't asked what's going on. We haven't had sex in 11 days and that is a record. He may have already gotten the hint. I'm ready for a vacation, man. 1
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