No Limit Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 No, we can't smell madness. In fact many women seem to love narcissists and large egos, though what is crazy in my opinion needn't be in every woman's. But when your behavior is not in standard or your entire aura reeks of insecurity, that we can sense real good.
angel.eyes Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 You've mentioned being very stressed a couple of times. What is causing you to be stressed?
Author Necris Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 This actually concerns me. Your therapist/psychologist/psychiatrist is there to help you, not cause you more harm. Therefore, you need to share with them that (at the very least) you are having harmful thoughts. Without the ability to know the big picture of what you are going through, they can't effectively get you the help that you really need. By trying to treat only the symptoms that you tell them about, it may be making the other conditions worse (i.e. the treatments for depression can increase thoughts of suicide). Oh I already told them about the crazy thoughts I just didn't elaborate on some of them since tbh it's not that important. And that's the reason they say I am probably suffering from an Anxiety Disorder or potential early schizophrenia. 1
clia Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 Aw, Necris, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. I was just thinking about you the other day and was hoping we hadn't seen you around because you had met a nice young lady. I don't have an answer to your question, but please continue to see your doctors because there is a lot they can do these days to help. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I'm really rooting for you to get through this. You always seemed like such a great guy.
Author Necris Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 (edited) relationships bring their own set of stressors......and you arent feeling alright in yourself are you necris? you need to have those thoughts under control and not so invasive before you even consider a relationship.I have been unmedicated for over a year......and my thoughts are in control...in meaning they are not affecting people around me.....they also are not affecting my interactions with people..i have my good days and my bad days......when voices in my head become something i cant handle ....i stay in my room...and i pray or read or distract myself with soothing music.........i have my strategies and what works for me......you need to find what works for you......it is concerning you havent opened up to someone other than on here...... one of the reasons i have had frequent hospital stays....is it is for my own safety....when i feel i have lost control or the voices are too intrusive....i am honest with shrinks i might nto go into graphic detail but i let them know i am struggling........because otherwise i wont make it......i know that...i am even honest with my family....i tell them nah i have to go in again no graphics..........and i really really dont like hospitals....i particularly dont like shrinks i find them arrogant and unfeeling....but they have protected me from myself for that they are helpful.. i know i have to make it.....so i do what i have to do to make it..... thats why i say to you dont start a relationship until you feel right in yourself dont make any life changing decisions other than to get some help......and then when you feel better revisit the idea of` a relationship you can put your effort into and know you wont damage anyone else in the process of forming and keeping a relationship that is good for you and good for them too........right now...that effort and energy you have needs to be for you and all for you alone, so you can feel well in yourself before being with anyone else or contemplating being with someone else.....please trust me i write what i write with experience............deb I'm sorry you have to go through life like that, but I'm also glad you seem to have control over your situation. I do get what you are saying and I do feel a bit down so I haven't actually been pursuing anyone at all. Also, I wasn't hearing voices I mean just thoughts. Like the suicidal thoughts aren't things I want to actually do it's just something that pops into my mind that seems out of my control, that's why I say I don't feel like a danger to anyone. I mean I guess its like a voice in the sense it feels external but its not like I hear anything. Basically I'm like this guy everyday, except I also have the surreal experience that life feels like some sort of dream: Though I have heard voices and seen strange things but this is rare and when it happens short-lived like hearing your name called out when no one is around or seeing something watching you that disappears, just wierd short-lived and rare occurrences like that. Edited April 27, 2015 by Necris
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I would imagine many women can, just like how women can sense, smell when a guy is desperate, needy, bitter and resentful.
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