nero1 Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 I met a girl at running club a couple of months ago, and got her number a couple of weeks ago (I see her there every saturday). We went out after running last week (she in fact came and asked me out, which was sweet), it was ok but I thought she was completely not into it. We were texting a bit in the week, she's always sweet. Turns out I was wrong about her not being into it because we went out again after the run this week and she was much more engaged than last week. I'd have liked to ask her out on a date for tonight but she has a family thing she was telling me about. I'm uncertain as to what I'll be working in the coming week so don't want to ask her on a date and risk having to cancel, therefore my plan is to ask her to come over for a bit after running next week. We finish by 9am so it's not like I'm trying to trick her into bed and I don't think she'd get that impression anyway. My questions to you, the loveshack community, are: Am I right to leave it another week, or should I try to see her sooner? I'll call her on monday or tuesday - should I ask her about coming over on saturday then, or just ask her on the day? And if there's anything else you'd like to add, please chime in. Thanks a lot
GTR King Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Best to call her Monday & see if she wanna do something in the week. if not just see her after running club. if she is 100% interested she will wanna see you
d0nnivain Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 You should at least be in touch sooner. Also especially in the beginning, give more advanced notice then do you want to go out tonight. Asking for a date the day of indicates that you don't value her time because you just assume she doesn't have a life or is willing to drop everything for you. It makes her seem like your back up plan.
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