Gaeta Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 It could be worse... I was on an okcupid date last year. I clearly have my pics up to date and I listed myself as 5'7 which is true. I drive an hour to meet her, get to the date and wait for her for a half hour. She's no where to be seen. Then I get a text 30 min later, "I'm here"... I told her where I was..20-30 min later still no girl, but could clearly tell she was playing with me because she kept texting me she couldn't find me. Finally I had enough and tell her I'm leaving and she goes.... "CATFISHED!!! You're so short!!!! You're a loser hahaha!!!" Wow!! that is one mind blowing story!! I can only say I'm sorry.
Toodaloo Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Oh hon that really is very crass and very unpleasant behavior. Thank God you found out now. The secret to being stood up I have found is to just enjoy it anyway! Some of my best nights out have ended up being with random strangers I have met when being stood up! Don't bother with her ever again. NEXT! 1
Mrlonelyone Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 That sucks. So far I've not had an OKC date stand me up. What I notice is that it seems 1/3rd of the people there are looking for validation not actual dates. According to Tinder they process 1 Billion swipes a day and only 12 million mutually like eachother. So if we are all getting dates set up we are either in then top 1.2% or we just ask out so many people.
BluegrassBaldGuy Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 This happened to me once from OKCupid as well. Yours sounds bad and I feel for you, so I'll try and help out by one-upping your awful experience! Here's how I got stood-up... This girl wanted to meet me for a dinner. She initiated the contact and meeting, which I took as showing excitement (LOL nope). I made the reservations for the following night. Fast forward to that evening. I drove 45 minutes into town and spent 20 minutes getting ready. I arrive and she messages me 5 minutes before our meeting time with this: "Hey, I just got out of work! Are you in town?" I say yes, then she says: "I might go to a bar instead." ... I'm confused what she's inferring, but whatever. I inquire and she says: "I got drunk at work." ... AND THAT'S IT. I didn't hear from her the rest of the night. None of those 3 messages make any logical sense and she didn't care to explain what they meant, a.k.a. if she was taking a rain check, if she was cancelling, if she was still on but was gonna be late. Nada LOL Anyway, she apologized the next day but I moved on. What a weird way to be stood up, right?! All you can do is laugh and move on haha. Online dating is not for the faint of heart! 1
smg15 Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 This happened to me once from OKCupid as well. Yours sounds bad and I feel for you, so I'll try and help out by one-upping your awful experience! Here's how I got stood-up... This girl wanted to meet me for a dinner. She initiated the contact and meeting, which I took as showing excitement (LOL nope). I made the reservations for the following night. Fast forward to that evening. I drove 45 minutes into town and spent 20 minutes getting ready. I arrive and she messages me 5 minutes before our meeting time with this: "Hey, I just got out of work! Are you in town?" I say yes, then she says: "I might go to a bar instead." ... I'm confused what she's inferring, but whatever. I inquire and she says: "I got drunk at work." ... AND THAT'S IT. I didn't hear from her the rest of the night. None of those 3 messages make any logical sense and she didn't care to explain what they meant, a.k.a. if she was taking a rain check, if she was cancelling, if she was still on but was gonna be late. Nada LOL Anyway, she apologized the next day but I moved on. What a weird way to be stood up, right?! All you can do is laugh and move on haha. Online dating is not for the faint of heart! I was confident you was going to say it was because she had 1. a dying relative OR 2. she was sick lol 1
BluegrassBaldGuy Posted April 26, 2015 Posted April 26, 2015 I was confident you was going to say it was because she had 1. a dying relative OR 2. she was sick lol Nope. Just because she got drunk at work... right before our alleged date night. Yep, it doesn't get much classier than that!
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