udelgirl Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 ok so my ex from ages ago WHOM I CHEATED ON recently contacted me telling me he loved me and wanted me back in his life. never in a million years i imagined this would happen, i felt really bad for cheating on him, i thought he was mad at me. apparently he dated some other girl and realized how much he wanted me instead of her. well now i am dating someone else. true, he's not the BEST, but he's been there for me through the tough times, when my former ex wasn't there. plus my family likes him and they didn't really get to know my ex (who is now coming back to me). i liked my ex cause we had a lot in common and went through tough stuff together, and at one point i really wanted more out of the relationship but he wanted to take things slow, and then i cheated on him out of impatience (guess my fault) and he got really mad... what would you do??? i love my current boyfriend, but i still have a special place for this guy, and i don't want to lose him twice!! i would just say friends, but both he and i had a really intense relationship with a whole lot of sexual tension and i don't think "just friends" would work right now.
scammy Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 I always say do you take a drink of milk and find out that it is spoiled and put it back in the fridge hoping its better the next time? Don't go jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Keep him as a friend, if you became bored with him once before you will most likely do so again???? If you really think there is a chance you need to take a look at WHY you cheated.
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