loveguest Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 ok so my ex from ages ago WHOM I CHEATED ON recently contacted me telling me he loved me and wanted me back in his life. never in a million years i imagined this would happen, i felt really bad for cheating on him, i thought he was mad at me. apparently he dated some other girl and realized how much he wanted me instead of her. well now i am dating someone else. true, he's not the BEST, but he's been there for me through the tough times, when my former ex wasn't there. plus my family likes him and they didn't really get to know my ex (who is now coming back to me). i liked my ex b/c we had a lot in common and went through tough stuff together, and at one point i really wanted more out of the relationship but he wanted to take things slow, and then i cheated on him out of impatience (guess my fault) and he got really mad... what would you do??? i love my current boyfriend, but i still have a special place for this guy, and i don't want to lose him twice!!
sunlight Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 Do not toy with him. Its not nice. That and if he knows he would rather you than her, what the heck is he still doing with her. Tell him to let her go.
udelgirl Posted April 19, 2005 Posted April 19, 2005 clarification, he broke up with her in hopes of getting back together with me..... thing is, now i don't know if i should break up w/ my current guy to be with him.....
zoonbaby Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 There is a reason it didn't work out the first time. Leave the past in the past.
heartbrokrn Posted November 18, 2005 Posted November 18, 2005 well dat happended to me but noone was cheating on each other im just 13 and he is 15! but we broke up cuz he moved houses all da way to da subburbs. and he said things werent gonna work out because of da didtance. i still like him and i m not sure im feeeling this way? he comes and he only looks at me and dats it. but when he is near i just want to tell him who i feel but i just dont. cuz dat will be called kissing ass and i dont wat to do dat. but im not sure if he is comeing back? i had a dream dat he came on da hood and told me he misses me and he wants me back ? iand besides dat my other ex also wants me back i call his house 2 talk to his sis but she wasent there and dats when he calls me telling me dat he love s me and dat he needs me and he asked me out again but i love jr and theirs something in their for victor im comfused i really want jr back i dont know? help me alejandra
NYCmitch25 Posted November 19, 2005 Posted November 19, 2005 clarification, he broke up with her in hopes of getting back together with me..... thing is, now i don't know if i should break up w/ my current guy to be with him..... Well, if you don't know, how are we supposed to know? lol And Gurl, if that is really your picture, I can see why you would be considered 'the one that got away'! I guess we need to know some history; One, how long were you dating this guy (cheated on), and how well do you know him? Two, the current guy, how long, and now serious ? Perhaps you are living out your guilt from your last relationship in your new one ? Maybe you are sort of "correcting" the affair you had? Maybe you just don't want to play the 'antagonist' again in your next greek drama? Furthermore, what other way to correct a previous relationship than to actually try to correct it? However, this is generally a bad idea and I'm not sure if you are into either of these guys.. Anyway, we'll wait for some info.. bye for now
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