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I meet this one girl on net..we were writing for some time,and during that time somewhere in all of that i realized i fall in love with that girl. We talked,and we still do every single day. Well i think youll know what is like to be in love. Even if is this way,i never felt something like this. Good thing is,she loves me to. She really does. I can see everyday that,she is just showing me. We even talk about merrige,kids and all. And i have a feeling she is the one. Well,all this sound like ideal story. But i have one big problem.. im without job,living in one ****y poor country,and i really dont see a way to go and meet her. We are on different continentes. I was trying really hard just to colect some money,but without goal. Well my point here is,i dont ask for a money..ifs there anyone who has the same problem,please tell me how did you do it. Or at least some nice words would be really helpfull for me not to lose my faith. I have no one,and thats why any words would mean alote to me. Thank you all.

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I'm sorry, but living in different countries usually means it's not going to work out.

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What country does she live in?

 

What country do you live in?

 

 

Is it nearly impossible for you to find employment in your country?

 

Does she live in an English speaking country? would you have a better life there?

 

Normally I discourage LDRs like this, but if you can manage to make a plan to move, it could work. If you are willing to move for her. Otherwise, it cannot work.

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Well im from Bosnia,and she is from Philipines. Its not imposible for me to get a job,i even gave application for some job. Just problem is couse i have to wait much time,and required time for colecting money will be really long time. But she would move at my place,she just want me to visite her first. We could live here dicently,if we both would work. And she is willing. But as i wrote up,just one problem. You think shes can wait for me for a longer time? ?

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Hi Joony,

 

How many months until you would be able to visit her?

 

It makes sense that she would like to spend time with you before she moves to your country.

 

I forgot to ask- How old are you? And how old is she?

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If you could make a plan to visit her within the next 6 months, I think that is reasonable.

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Well i need to wait for some one,or two months to get a job,if i get it. Then working without spending,some ten months. Something like that. So about one year. Just i am afraid she wont be able that long..you know,problem in ldr its always insecurity. Well we are young,im 23 shes 22.

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A year is a long time :(

 

 

Well, you can work on getting a job, and being her friend. If you're still close in a year, who knows? We can't predict what may happen.

 

But don't get offended if she feels she cannot wait a year. It's a very long time (for anyone of any age!) and sadly, it's just how life works out sometimes.

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Get a job on a ship. Save all your money. Chances are you will stop in the Philippines at some point. Are you both Muslims?

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Yes,i heard about that. Someone mention me. Can you tell me where i could get some info? No,shes Catholic.

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