Gaeta Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 From how I see it, women WANT is TO BELIEVE that a real man sits there and takes your sh*t because he is your "partner" and "respects" you. In reality, that is about the woman demanding control over the terms of the arraignment which basically makes the man a b*tch. The text is surrounding my sister's freak accident which has almost left her paralyzed and about reaching out to people who live in my neighborhood (and who I grew up in school with) for prayers and to spread the word in the church. The response I got back showed dignity and class and shortly after, and an apology for behaving like a 3 year old. Once again, the women here prove not to understand a thing about men. They even don't seem to understand their own motivations. Their advice to men wouldn't even work on them LOL. When you are asking for HIS LAST NAME and for half of his life's work, both must be submissive and obedient. The way the man shows obedience is by bringing home the bacon day after day and providing a good quality life where nothing is missing. A woman needs to return that obedience in the form of submission. If that's not the type of man you want, what you are looking for is someone who is submissive to you - not someone who are you submissive to. In other words, you want to be in control of the relationship (at your will) instead of having fundamental ground rules that are the law of the land. The woman does not get the "final word". That belongs to the man of the household. If you, as a woman, expect a man to provide you with a ring, a house, a car, money to go shopping with, etc., you NEED to be obedient to him. He is showing his obedience by providing you with half of what he worked for your whole life. If you are in that situation and decide you feel like not paying any attention to him or you want to change the arraignment unilaterally, YOU are the one who is insecure. Demanding the ability to tuck your tail between your legs and hide is not indicative of a secure person. It is indicative of a coward who doesn't even trust themselves and their own commitments. I am sorry I didn't realize you are from Saudi Arabia and were trying to integrate the Sharia in your daily life. I am afraid I cannot help you with your dilemma. I am from a country where women don't take their husband's name when they marry. I am also from a country where women lead in science, engineering and medical field. I am from a place where women represent 50% of workers therefore 50% of tax payers therefore we (women) don't expect or owe ***** to men, pardon my french. 3
Author frankiesaysrelax Posted April 25, 2015 Author Posted April 25, 2015 I am sorry I didn't realize you are from Saudi Arabia and were trying to integrate the Sharia in your daily life. I am afraid I cannot help you with your dilemma. I am from a country where women don't take their husband's name when they marry. I am also from a country where women lead in science, engineering and medical field. I am from a place where women represent 50% of workers therefore 50% of tax payers therefore we (women) don't expect or owe ***** to men, pardon my french. Wow. Hang on while I bow your royal heiress LOL. No wonder you are so into this. Doesn't look like you have many real men around your parts.
Timshel Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 LOL are you the sole provider for any family? Only one person wears the pants in my house. You can call it insecure or controlling or whatever you want but at the end of the day, that's the law and I lay down the law - not the woman. You can be the the "gentle giant". I'll be the realistic one with concrete rules. You want to live in MY multi million dollar home? You want to drive MY sports car? You want MY diamonds? You want MY children? Then you live by my rules. It's clearer if I put it this way - My job is not to make a woman happy. That's up to her. I can only give her my expectations and demand obedience to them. If that's not the type of man she's looking for, she'll find someone like you who will let her get her way - even if she is disrespecting you. Disrespect is returned with disrespect, not with "come on baby". The difference may be that I know what I am bringing to the table and unless the woman inherited millions, it's not equal to what I am bringing and that has to be understood. Meet heiress. My terms, frankiejustrelax. Good luck with that. 1
Gaeta Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Wow. Hang on while I bow your royal heiress LOL. No wonder you are so into this. Doesn't look like you have many real men around your parts. I bet you can't even point Saudi Arabia on a map. 1
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 You do understand that women are allowed to work and support themselves now right? We can also vote, drive cars, be president, serve in the military... Once you arrive in 2015, I think you'll find it is much different than wherever you are currently living. Once he ARRIVES here? In this time? This backasswards relic NEVER LEFT the 18th century lol If we all DON'T FEED THE TROLL, it may just crawl back into it's hole. If it doesn't, I will iggy it until it disappears! http://www.viralread.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/internet-troll-300x269.jpg . 1
joseb Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 DON'T FEED THE TROLL . Darn, beat me to it! Maybe someone can close thread too?
katiegrl Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 It was a mistake to convey the info about your sister through text. That's a jarring way to receive bad news. Yes, **btw it does look like you are using your sister's accident to manipulate her into talking you.** I believe you in this thread & your other one when you said that your EX's prayers will be meaningful to you, but it doesn't look that way. It looks manipulative. OP, I am confused. If your motive for sending your ex that text was ONLY so she would say a prayer for your sis, why do you need a response back? She gets the text, and says a prayer, that's it. Why do you need her to respond back? Unless of course your reason for sending it "was"* a bid for sympathy, which frankly is precisely what it sounds like.
melissacus Posted April 25, 2015 Posted April 25, 2015 Hahahahaha........ lay down the law. That's so cute.
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