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Keep comparing dates to my Ex


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I just had a second date last night with a really nice girl.

 

The first date I had, I was really into her and couldn't wait to see her again. But last night for some reason I would often compare her to my ex without meaning to. I think on a personal level we click very well, probably about the same as my ex, on a physical level, I think she's pretty but not as attractive as I found my ex.

 

Overall, I just wasn't feeling the same 'sparks' and that same sense of 'we really like each other' as I had in the first few dates with my last girlfriend.

 

This is really the first girl I've dated in the 6 months since we broke up. Is this normal? I'm still attracted to this girl I'm dating, but I just can't help but feel right now that it's not the same and it's causing me to feel really down.

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If you are still comparing, you are not ready to date. Give yourself more time.

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