neowulf Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 Women don't need to approach. They need to get better at *flirting*. That's the bit I've noticed the most these days. I walk down the street and I can't even get a woman to make eye contact. I *thought* I had the interest of one girl, while I was waiting to order lunch. She was standing in front of me, but kept turning her head left and right at 90'. I could have sworn she was looking at me in her peripheral vision. That said, no direct eye contact, no smiling. No strong signals that say "hey I think you're cute, come talk to me dummy!" A woman who masters flirting never has to approach. If the man is keen, all she needs do is display her interest. 1
todreaminblue Posted May 10, 2015 Posted May 10, 2015 I stumbled upon that thread last night and read some of it! There are a lot of mixed views on whether it's "acceptable" for a woman to approach a man. I still like for a man to approach me and have never been one to initiate, so I'm sure I'll stick with that. But I'm just feeling eager and overzealous about getting this cute guy to take me on a date I would stick with what feels right for you to do..what your heart knows is good......and patience is well...a virtue.....good luck...hope he asks you out....deb
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Women don't need to approach. They need to get better at *flirting*. That's the bit I've noticed the most these days. I walk down the street and I can't even get a woman to make eye contact. I *thought* I had the interest of one girl, while I was waiting to order lunch. She was standing in front of me, but kept turning her head left and right at 90'. I could have sworn she was looking at me in her peripheral vision. That said, no direct eye contact, no smiling. No strong signals that say "hey I think you're cute, come talk to me dummy!" A woman who masters flirting never has to approach. If the man is keen, all she needs do is display her interest. Fine then, I'll just continue to accept but not like the card I was dealt with for having a penis
Gary S Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 If he likes you, striking up a conversation and giving him your number will work. However, by sticking your neck out, you risk rejection. Why not wait until the end of semester, maybe he will ask you first? If he's the one making the moves, there is less chance of rejection.
neowulf Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Fine then, I'll just continue to accept but not like the card I was dealt with for having a penis Hey man, when you find yourself on the soccer field of life, best not waste time complaining you can't pickup the ball. We don't get the choose the rules, we just have to adapt to them as best we can.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted May 11, 2015 Posted May 11, 2015 Hey man, when you find yourself on the soccer field of life, best not waste time complaining you can't pickup the ball. We don't get the choose the rules, we just have to adapt to them as best we can. That's a good analogy, metaphor
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