acorn95 Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 For the last couple of weeks (2 or 3), I have been sitting next to this one girl in class. We laugh, tease, and joke around and have a lot in common. There is a good vibe between us and she blushes and laughs a lot at what I say. We hug at the beginning and end of class and i playfully touch her during class occasionally. So, I asked her out to a dinner date last weekend and the date went well but my duma** didn't kiss her goodnight at the end. Anyways, this week we sat next to each other (tues/ths) and the same old joking, teasing, etc. during class. After class, I asked her if she had plans for the weekend, but turns out she told me about how much work she has for the weekend. I then told her how I wanted to go out into the city (we go to school in NY) and do something fun like go have a picnic in central park. She wasn't fan of the picnic idea and said that she will not be free this weekend regardless. At that point I was in a rush and had to go and told her I hope we can still hang out and parted ways. I'm not very experienced with dating so I'm not exactly sure what to do moving forward. I don't want to ask her on a date over the weekend since she is busy, but should probably text her a little and flirt with her just to stay in some contact? (We have texted a little before). Next week is the last week of class for the semester, and I definitely want to ask her out and get things going before summer (we live near each other anyway). We have class together on tuesday and thursday, should i wait until thursday again and ask out for the weekend? Should I tell her that I like her while asking her out or at all? And what are some good date ideas for a girl who is reserved, introverted, and not necessarily into adventure?
GTR King Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 (edited) You had a good 1st date You asked her on a second date & she said I am busy this weekend If she was really interested in you she would of defantly wanted to see you. I'd say ask one more time. Say something like I am free this weekend would you like to do (What ever you decide) at 7. Set a place/time you wanna meet. If she says I will let you know or sorry I am busy this weekend etc then let her come back to you with a date/time she is free to see you. Try get her number so you can call/text her to set the dates up still talk to her in class etc Edited April 24, 2015 by GTR King
d0nnivain Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 It's still too cold for a picnic. While it would have been better had she offered you alternative dates / times when she was free, let this weekend go. Next Tuesday, ask her to do something else next weekend. If you don't get a yes to that, give up.
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