michellew Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 So I went on a few dates with this guy and could tell he wasn't in it for the long haul (last minute invites, never picked me up, etc). I am ready to settle down so I ended it by telling him exactly what I felt..."I can tell we are looking for different things, I want something serious, etc". He agreed and said he was not looking for a committed relationship, but he really enjoyed our time together. Fast forward two weeks and he started texting me again yesterday. He also asked if I would be his date to a festival this weekend. Confused.
BluEyeL Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Some men are just testing you to see if they can get away with giving you a limited version of a relationship and in exchange for these crumbs, they get an ego stroke, sex, or whatever they need at the moment. Even if you told him what you want, men do not listen to what you say, they listen to what you do. So I would politely decline and reiterate your position regarding to what you're looking for. 1
CarrieT Posted April 24, 2015 Posted April 24, 2015 Concur. He may see if you keep going out with him that you might turn into a FWB.
Author michellew Posted April 24, 2015 Author Posted April 24, 2015 You're right; he probably is testing the waters. I actually want to go to this festival so I told him yes without any expectations. If he tries to make any sort of move, I will then reiterate where I stand.
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